My boyfriend that I truly love (still) broke up with me a couple of hours before Thanksgiving. Since that night, I've been or felt really lost. Since then, we HAVE talked, but not like we use too. We had somewhat little agruments after we broke up, but just the other night. He text me and said that we are going to work things out, but we need to take it slow and NOT rush into things (move to fast.) But, yesterday....I got a text from him saying he got kicked out of his appartment. I herd from him a couple of times afterwards, but now....nothing. I tried calling him, but no answer. I'm worried. Should I just forget about him? Is it DONE? Help....give me some tips, please. I'm so heart broken and lost inside right now. Please help me.
2006-12-01 22:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by graduation_girl2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, the same thing happened to me (basically) and i tried to keep in touch but, like you said, it just wasn't the same. Even after we had "worked things out" we talked and it was so awkward that both of us, (him before me) just...gave up. Boys move on way to quick sometimes...but you can't help that. If you think it might work out keep trying, girl! and if you've lost hope... i'd quit before he hurts you more.
2006-12-01 22:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously going through a difficult time and needs some space....It sounds as if he is really in conflict about your relationship and perhaps there is just too much pressure on him at this moment....back off for a bit and let things settle down...you might want to text him and just say something like, I love you and I'm here if you need me....and then wait. Good luck
2006-12-02 06:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of things that COULD be going on here. Do you really want a BF that is not even considerate enough to let yo know? I mean he hasn't even let you know where he is?
A phone call only takes a sec. If he were thinking of you, he would call,
2006-12-02 06:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is seems to me you need a drink when one persons doesn't communicate the re;ationship will not survive there must be trust in one another to confide the you go thru sooo sit back with drink and think about the big picture
2006-12-02 06:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by pmpforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really sorry to hear that...well it's really difficult to mend a broken heart.. but not impossible... it will take time to heal. you can go out and spent time with your other friend even though you may not feel like socialising.... well time is always the best healer.. give yourself some time...
take care...
2006-12-02 06:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got kicked out of his apartment then he is probably not a very good guy. Find someone else.
2006-12-02 06:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mending a broken heart is not easy. u feel that ur world has collapsed esp. if ur world revolved around him. please.... save some love for yourself get busy and be with your friends. just think that there must be someone who's better and deserves your love!!
2006-12-02 06:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by le mizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a big know about relationship, but, all of i know is: this feeling will be past, you'll find someone better, it's only queston of time... stay your mind clean, take care of yourself, and BE HAPPY!!!
"...you don't care what how i feel and i don't feel it anymore..." ('ATAWA' by 'System of a down')
2006-12-02 06:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jhoni Derriper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh i am soo sry, if you are that worried show up at the apartment and ask the manager anything he knows then ask his friends
2006-12-02 06:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by football honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if urs is a true love then dont worry u will unite again
2006-12-02 06:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by rick hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋