One minute your man is telling you he loves you then the next he's yelling at you for something you did not do,or were'nt even around to be able to do it.Example:I like to sew and my sewing needles are always finding themselves in his foot.Now I have'nt been home for 2 or 3 days,he has and his friends have ;okey i'm home now and not even been here 5 hours and he comes in the frontroom with one of my sewing needles in his hand yelling at me because he just found it on the floor and almost stepped on it.He tells me it's all my fault and he wants to jabb me with it I told him I havent been here and he getts p.o'd and stomps off to bed.is this a tepicale man thing or what because I'd really like to know I mean after not seeing him for 2 or 3 days I wanted to snuggle down and watch a movie with him,but no way he wants to fight..why?why?Is'nt he happy I'm home dose he want me to leave again????HELP?
2006-12-01 21:48:28 · 10 answers · asked by Wicked Wonders69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he needs some anger management classes. He sounds like he is a bit immature. Good luck
2006-12-01 22:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a few things wrong here...One he could be tired of the relationship and wants to break it off or he is trying to pick a fight to go hang out somewhere and be with someone else he may be seeing....You need to just talk to him to see what is going on....If you have been gone for days at a time, some men stray away from home and the women today have no problems screwing your man....Communicate with him and if you know him well, you will get your answer. I had a situation like that once where I was seeing someone and he always acted like I was getting on his nerves and guess what, he was cheating...If you don't want to talk to him, just see if he is changing his patterns and just sit back and relax and observe more than yelling and you will get your answer. You can also pray to GOD to have that mean spirit taken away from your man.
2006-12-01 22:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the term is "normal relationship". With the exception of this being gone for days at a time. What are you a trucker? I noticed you didn't call him "your husband" but instead "your man" are you just shacking up or what? If this was a standard response to your arrival I would say that your relationship is going to leave permanently soon. But, if it's just an isolated incident, with something annoying "like sticking needles in a foot" (in Vietnam they call this torture) then this isn't a big deal. I know you want to snuggle and you still can but now your going to have to say your sorry. Yes you have been gone for days, but sometimes it takes days to step on needles, right?
2006-12-01 22:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do your needles get all over the house for him to step on?? If you were to designate one room in the house for sewing this might help solve his needle problem, provided of course he stays out of that room and you pick up your needles and put them away.
But also if he is constantly getting angry, yelling, and accusing you of things, then I think it's time you two sit down and TALK. You explain to him how his words are hurting you and he needs to explain why he chooses to hurt you or/and visa virsa. Just sit down and talk about everything tell you are both blue in the face, and if you do it right when your finally done you will ether be broken up or happier then you have ever been.
Good Luck.
Of course if he is actually abusive then just leave his butt NOW.
2006-12-01 22:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't about being gay or promptly or bi. neither is this about gender. it really is about identity. basically because someone has come out as gay or lesbian would not advise that human being has never ever had emotions or been in any courting with individuals of the different sex. Or that they could want to date someone who's of the different sex. It basically signifies that they grow to be conscious of with the gay community. I printed this in yet another answer yet in 2002 I had an affair with a married woman yet she replaced into gay! She had come out at the same time as she replaced into 13 and had under no circumstances ever had emotions for men till her proper pal died of a drug overdose and that i replaced into there for her. We became very close and after some months we kissed and became fans. So I do imagine that someone should be gay or lesbian yet nevertheless have emotions and could want to have sexual relationships with individuals of the different sex.
2016-10-16 11:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their peepees make them crazy!!! Men are like children, OK Big children that can hurt you... find his rythym if you step back you may see a cycle to his moods. Men get frustrated easily and lash out because they have no answers (like Babies!) learn the cycle and control him and when he gets out of line step out of the way the lack of confrontation will calm him down! be more careful of your needles!!!
2006-12-01 21:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine did that sh*t too. and i always thought it was my fault. took a couple weeks after he left me for his ex to realize it wasn't.
they do it because they are immature. and have anger problems. tell him he needs to fix it or you're leaving, it's not your fault, things happen and he needs to get over it. if he doesn't want to, then go find someone better.
2006-12-02 00:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hoeny this doesn't sound good. no its not typical, when my exgf would come home from visiting her folks all i wanted to do is spend time with her and talk about her trip, or what ever.
2006-12-01 22:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does that because you let him. Why are you with him? Don't tell me 'Love'.
2006-12-01 21:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a controling man. he will be abusive. get out while you can.
2006-12-01 22:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋