I really really like this girl. I am obsessed I'm so... crazy for her. I have been for a long time, it seems like forever. We are friends, but I want to be closer. Any suggestians would be awsome.
2006-12-01 21:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by Ertgert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel. She may feel the same way. After all, the worst she can say is no, right? And even if she doesn't now, it doesn't mean she never will. It will put your cards on the table and make it much easier as far as I can see, she will see you can be open to her and girls like that
2006-12-01 21:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by crazytoad11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont let yourself become "obsessed" with anyone, first off. It can only lead to heartache for yourself. Maybe you should just be oldfashioned, i know some women, including myself like that, just ask her out to dinner or something, being cordial about it, and when you ask depending on what kind of girl she is, bring her a flower, not a rose right out, maybe some kind she said she liked before, and just say would you like to go have dinner with me on _________ night. Make it something like a Tuesday or something just be casual about and talk over dinner, tell her she looks pretty, her hair looks nice under the moonlight kind of thing and be sincere about it. Women know when a man is not sincere. Tell her she smells nice, and just see how she reacts. Women like to be romanced and feel secure and taken care of, if she isnt into you, there is usually a hesitant look or phrase she might be afraid to give you. just go with your instincts, if things go well, when you drop her off just give her a kiss on the cheek and see where things go from there!! Good Luck Hun, Hope it works out!!
2006-12-02 05:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like the girl, tell her there is somthing you have been dying to tell her. say,(her name) i need to be honest with you, I want you to be completely honest to me, over the(the time you've known her) i have relized i like you a lot more then a friend. so please tell me how you feel.
2006-12-02 05:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by football honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her tht u love her but make clear tht shes not goin out wid some1.
2006-12-02 05:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you lose by telling her? I wish I had a guy who would tell me.
2006-12-02 05:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is you ,the only, one, who can find the solution, so I am not used for nothing ,I think.
2006-12-02 05:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about your feelings and make sure it is face to face, because she might not believe you otherwise
2006-12-02 06:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just tell her, honesty is the best policy.
2006-12-02 05:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur in love with her.Just go to her and propose her.
2006-12-02 05:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by nan_bubby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋