girls family forced her into marriage .after that she tried 2 elope but was caught and was threatened and beaten up. how can she move out of this rship
2006-12-01 21:01:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That depends on where in the world you are and what your capacity is to go it alone. Give more details.
LC - How do you know she's in USA? She might be in Afganistan.
Hans Laxman I think you are an @rsehole for suggesting that the girl kill herself.
2006-12-01 21:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different cultures will give you different responses. Being an Amer. I would say to run like mad. However, you must understand the culture. Arranged marriages are very real and aren't taken lightly. I would say to get her eyes off the Western world and stick with her culture. If her mind has seen our way of living where women are equal (well almost, but we're getting there) and she can't accept nothing less then she is in for a brutal and maybe even deadly siege. If you are sweet on the girl, You will have to do some major planning to get her out. Just be aware that this isn't the only culture shock your going to run into. It gets worst!
2006-12-01 21:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what Heera has said. Islam doesnt force a person into marriage with a person he/she dislikes. Thats the reason why its compulsory for the Qazi to ask both the bride and the groom if they agree for the marriage and when you say that the girl's family forced her into marriage....she herself has accepted the marriage contract and the only way she can move out of this relationship is by getting a divorce in a legal and proper way.
2006-12-02 21:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure it is the exact opposite. I don't know anyone that wants to picture 2 dudes sticking it in each others butt's. That's just gross. If some one was obsessed with what goes on in a gay guys bedroom than chances are that person is also gay. You asked this question as if you are a mind reader, and you know what everyone is thinking. That is your problem, stop generalizing everything.
2016-03-13 01:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now a days theres a law in muslims also that a lady can also give devorce . its legal now . try an advocate that can help . or catch a news channel and mail them for help you can get the numbers and e-mail id in there crime reporters programe at the end and in between also ( aaj tak and zee are very quick to these subjects ) good luck
2006-12-03 20:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very careful i don't know your family but i was married to a lebanese muslim and his friend was here on a visa for school and brought his sister over for a education but she fell in love with someone other than who she was to marry back home as they already promised her to someone else. but she didnt' want that and she found her own man. her brother told his father. and the father told her to come home they were having the older sister get married and she needed to be in the wedding. and when she got home they took her out to the dessert and beheaded her as this was shameful onto the family for her picking someone else other than what her father chose for her. so i hoipe your parents aren't that extreme. but if you dont' know how they will react you may want to check that out first.
2006-12-02 00:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to answer this question since we don't know if she is overseas or in the USA. If she is here in the US there are alot of options for her. If she is overseas maybe she can get a lawyer to mediate on her behalf.
2006-12-01 21:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is having above 18 yrs in the sense now she is major so she will have a rights to decide her marriage if she wants any help to contact police, womens helping society, ladies club. They will help her.
2006-12-02 01:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by ShreeNathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on where she is? where ever she is she must 1st take care of her certificates. next findout a police station nearby and lodge complaint. Seek women protection societies. or social service org. she must take friend's help. if she is in love with some one, then she must be careful with evidence. should be confident. because, if someone comes to her riscue, and her parents talk to her emotionally....it may be danger to the person who is willing to help her. anyway she should be willing to stand by on her own.
2006-12-01 21:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could report the abuse to the police, file charges, get a restraining order.
This is America if she really doesn't want to get married she doesn't have to.
2006-12-01 21:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋