I'm only 22, not on any kind of birth control(just use condoms) or medications. I have no sex drive. This cannot be normal for someone my age. I love my fiance very much and I don't want this to ruin our relationship.
2006-12-01 19:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by hevs55 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
PS. I have no sex drive all together. Porn does nothing for me. I can watch it- any kind of porn- and not even get turned on.
2006-12-01 19:59:21 · update #1
I am in the exact same boat as you. I'm 23 and have ZERO sex drive. It really hurts my boyfriend, but I don't know what to do! Could you possibly be depressed? My doctors seem to have that as the only explanation. I feel really bad about it, but I just don't ever want to do it! You should talk to your doctor. It could be depression. However most antidepressants are known to decrease your libido... so it's a vicious cycle.
2006-12-01 19:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, yahoo is scaring me today, i seem to have the same issues as everyone else.
I also lack sex drive. I've been without sex for like 2 months now, my partner often trys but i say no he understand but i can see it confuses him and disappoints him.
It's a very unfortune it cause i bloody enjoy sex when we do have it. I do get horny over thing like porn but then when we both get in the mood i say no like half of me cant be bothered but the other half is saying yes yes yes! Very confusing, i really cant work it out.
2006-12-01 21:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a big fan of sex drives.I usually find after a drive, no matter how short,I just find the back seat a big turn off.(not the road,I meant as opposed to (TURNS ME ON, BABY).
How do YOU use condoms??? Can I come and watch??
seriously,you should relax and you and your partner should talk about what you like the other to do or not do.I have discovered when it comes to sex "honesty is the best policy".And if he can't reciprocate,get a new one who does!!
2006-12-01 20:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by robert w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good! It's normal for a female to not have a sex drive! You're not supposed to have a sex drive! Stop looking at porn!!!!!!
2006-12-02 02:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by thegreatone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also 22 and have no sex drive. According to my doctor its very normal for females my age to experience this. I still dont know what i should do either,
2006-12-02 04:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by That_Girl_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPEAK with him about it.
Many women are too shy or embarrassed to discuss their sexual desires and needs frankly with their partner. Yet it is crucial to communicate openly. Bottling up emotions, or failing to tell your partner what pleases you, may lead to sexual frustration and unhappiness, and could even bring your sex life to a grinding halt.
Remember, few men have an innate knowledge of what pleases a woman. But in a healthy relationship, most are willing and eager to learn how to please their partners. Many men may need to be taught where to touch and how to stimulate their partner to the point of arousal.
2006-12-01 20:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you completely lacking sex drive, or just for him? Could be that you have some subconscious resistance towards being intimate with him. Or it could be symptomatic of a medical condition, like depression.
2006-12-01 19:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by jesuspimper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try finding a sex therapist. And if you are stressed about anything work school anything maybe your wedding and if its possible you could be pregnant I lost my sex drive while I was pregnant but if all else fails try the the therapist....
2006-12-01 19:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered Lake Shore Drive in Chicago? .....just kidding...you should consult a doctor- preferably a female gynecologist and/or a therapist in conjunction.
2006-12-01 19:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may need to have a serious talk with your partner if he is failing to get you excited. you may also have a problem for which you need counseling. it may have several causes, but you need to determine what is wrong. it may be something simple such as a vitamin deficiency or as complex as a psych problem.
2006-12-01 20:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋