Need to help a 29 yo male with sever Oedipus complex personality disorder: relates to females as mother love, sleeps with them but no sex. likes to cuddle and be waited on, excessive verbal communication with females. He is bi-sexual, has gay sex with older men (he likes to receive oral sex for money), doesn't establish any longer-term relationship with women or men. He suddenly disappears and ends a starting relation by running away, ceasing all communication. He is otherwise a handsum, smart, cordial young man. Women fall in love with him, but then are disappointed when no return love, no sex, and disappears after living with them for 6 months to a year. Need help reaching him, helping him understand his Oedipus complex. Any suggestions?
2006-12-01 19:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by alaskasourdoughman 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
someone close to him, probably a parent was sexually abused, he is living out their reppressed memories and emotions,,,how to help,,,,hmmm,,,,,, bring out all hidden secrets in family....expose and resolve.....
2006-12-01 19:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's not having sex with the women but does with men it's not an oedipus complex he's GAY!!!And maybe dosen't quite know it yet.This is not bisexuality .
2006-12-02 03:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Dark Side 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound cruel, but the only way to reach someone with that much personal trauma embedded in them is through psychiatric help. If you contact any professional psychiatrists in your area, they should be able to provide you with a plan or someone who will help you to help your friend get the help he needs.
2006-12-02 03:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by myyahooanswersaccount1184 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound like a true oedipus complex to me. sounds like a selfish man who wants to have his cake and eat it too, while taking advantage of whomever he can get to fulfill his needs of the moment. hmmm, could be a narcissistic personality disorder.
2006-12-02 03:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by pirate00girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real winner. your friend has to recognize that he has some bizarre issues and has to be determined to seek professional help. however experience shows that this guy is not the type to ever face these issues.
sounds like a user type to me.
EDIT >>> i have to totally agree with pirate girl above. i was thinkin the same thing.
2006-12-02 03:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him to a psycho the rapist.
2006-12-02 03:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah shut up and blow me.
2006-12-02 03:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nicholas J 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋