Ok, heres the question, what can us guys do better? I'm no stranger to people there are some real a** holes out there.... Actualy I would say the general majority of my fellow males are *****, walking, talking, *****. Maby you girls can help us out, to figure out what we can do, or do better in relationships, common chatter, or other things like dates.
2006-12-01 19:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Please send your friends here or rate the question, I'm thinking alot of wimen need to be herd and some guys need to definitly listen!
2006-12-01 19:34:27 · update #1
Here's the key....
BE CONFIDENT!! Be a little cocky, it makes a girl want more. Don't come on too strong, and don't be too eager.
2006-12-01 20:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Yeah. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that some girls I know have a problem with is how guys ask a girl out based only on her appearance, without getting to know whether they would really get along with her. It's possible for a girl's friends to tell whether a guy has asked a girl out based on her appearance, because the friends know the girl well enough to tell whether that guy would really get along with her or not. If he asks her out anyway, he apparently doesn't know that they wouldn't get along. Then her friends might also not want to go out with him, because they think he's superficial.
So I'd say get to know the girls at least a little and make your choices based on something other than physical appearance. I think that people become more attractive to you when you care about them anyway.
On another note, I am personally turned off when the guy that I'm out with complains a lot or says negative things about people and situations. I put a lot of energy into having a positive attitude, and I don't like my date to be one downer after another.
2006-12-02 03:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for asking this question. This shows you are probably not in the same category that you put the majority of males in. Good for you!
Being a woman, having been in relationships, and a marriage. The thing I would most like to see men be able to do better is to listen, really listen. And be emotionally supportive when a woman hurts, like when she loses a loved one, or is generally discouraged for some good reason. Be more supportive. The men I have met in the last couple of years, did nothing but run away when it came to me needing some emotional support when my Dad passed away. This was a huge disappointment and why I chose to answer your question.
Thanks for caring and bothering to ask!
2006-12-02 03:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,u helped me so I'll help u =)
girls just want o b loved,cared for ,and safe.she doesn't want the bodyguard thing but she does want o feel like a women,so if guys do try to snag her #,just keep them running u know?letting her know ur intuned wit her life is a BIGGIE,she needs t know u care for her and a bit of praise willcome in handy now and then,lol but don't serenade wit a violin and roses,maybe valentine's yr choice.but love her unconditinoally but only do so if u feel that way but if u just want oknow her better,be a gentlemen and things willwork out from there,trust me.
girls like guys wit good memories,like if u remembered were u met r when and what u guys did and do something wit that information liek on an nnviersary take her to the movies for a milk shake,remebering wat u guys did earlier will create even more sparks and the fact that u did classify ur frends as ***** and u not being one,that's verygood for u and i'm glad that u r mature enough to find out the other sex's opininon as well,d olet me know if u need nymore tips,my hand's getting lazy now,lol,my emaii is irule2292@yahoo.ca.good luck wit yr love life and hope i helped a little,u really helped with my question ,thanku from the bottom of my heart.sry bout the typos
2006-12-02 10:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Where should I begin! Women like courtesies, politeness. Talk about things you have in common. It takes talk to try to figure that out. Don't come on like you are so popular with other girls. Be genuine, not faking friendship. Don't look only for the best looking girl if you want quality friendship. Try to find character in your conversations, not just talking about other people. Qualities in a person are learned over time.
2006-12-02 03:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a lot to cover ..maybe a bookstore is where you will find the info you want.
2006-12-02 03:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋