Hubby can't have offspring (must use donor)...should I proceed to have 2nd child, or risk not having any other children. Please help.
2006-12-01 19:06:32 · 12 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if I wind up staying with him forever and didn't have another child because I was thinking about the consequences. Do you know what I mean?
2006-12-02 16:38:31 · update #1
We can't answer this for you...follow your heart.
It's up to you if you want another child. If you want advice....please explain what the deal is?!?
2006-12-01 19:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If not staying with your hubby, and then seek a new man. You might be lucky and find one that can give a sweet baby,and that way you can take care of two problems at one time. But that's all up to you to make that decision. Good luck.
2006-12-01 21:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say...first decide if your hubby is the right guy and if you want to stay. Secondly consider the problems of being a single parent. Thirdly consider the children's best interests. Write all the good and bad about staying and leaving and weigh it up...
2006-12-01 19:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gina, someone with your higher education should know better, you just want the child support, and most of the rest of us will see that. And what do you think that 2nd child might want, a mother to old to share her time with when she is 10, no father...get real...you motives are all so self centered.
2006-12-01 19:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do some soul searching..Do you love him? Are you tired of being with him?...These are some of the questions you need to ask.....When you ask yourself these questions, you will know what to do....Stay in prayer too and that too wil bring you your answers but I don't think you should leave a man because of him not being able to have kid(s)....Did you know he could not have kids before?if you did, you made the choice and now you have to make a decision.
2006-12-01 22:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having another child at this point would be completely selfish! How could you even consider it, if your marriage is that unstable?
2006-12-02 03:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you consider having a child when you have other plans in mind?
2006-12-01 19:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At first I was going to say don't have more kids with your husband if you are thinking of leaving. But if you have to use a sperm donor then go for it.
2006-12-01 19:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
gina i wouldnt risk it of haveing a other child.
2006-12-01 19:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MY FEELING IS A LOT OF WOMEN, MAYBE NOT YOU., USE MEN JUST TO HAVE KIDS, THEY THEY SPLIT. DO THINGS FOR THE RIGHT REASONS
2006-12-01 20:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋