Is it okay to have a child with a man you ultimately might not stay with (p.s. man does not have capacity to have children) must use donor.
2006-12-01 19:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-01 19:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are enough unwanted children in this world. Think about adoption. BUT BEFORE YOU DO.... think about the situation that you are bringing the child into..... If you don't want to stay in this marriage, what makes you think the child would have a good childhood in either a miserable marriage, or a single parent household? Please don't misunderstand, there are good single parent families. But do you really want to put yourself and your children through the stress of this situation?
2006-12-01 20:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He looks controlling this particular element of your life (with regard to family contributors and issues). now to not indicate, you seem letting him. that's your life and also you've as a lot say as him. you want to communicate with him and tell him all that you're feeling and placed your foot down. His son is nineteen! he's sufficiently previous to initiate his personal life, practice dinner his personal foodstuff, wash his personal outfits and performance the needed experience and decency to understand even as human beings pick on my own time. communicate such as your husband and tell him the way you experience. tell him you're keen to compromise, yet that you both might want to experience that's equivalent and also you're both comfortable with it. and also tell him the way you experience about his son and say that it really is time for him to both bypass out on his personal, or a minimum of stay another position even as you get used to the toddler being there and bonding mutually as a family contributors.
2016-11-30 01:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Its selfish. You are talking about life. A child is entitled to two parents. This fantasy that one parent is just fine is one thing that contributes to the problems. Why would you want to have a child with a man that you don't intend to stay with?
2006-12-01 19:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by moosie2026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you sort out your marital problems first? Decide whether to stay or go, but don't bring another child into an unstable situation.
2006-12-01 19:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you say " I LIKE" than do what you like the most important thing is the love that you can give to this child and the chance that you give to his sister or brother to be together .you know even your hobby rest the mother is the most needed
2006-12-01 20:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by dakry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always adopt. figure out what your going to do about your husband first. Talk this over with him first, before getting pregnant. You best bet is to fine a donor. Or adopt.
2006-12-01 19:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey gina
im a sigle man and a single father if you want i would like to talk to you you can e- mail me if you want. i been looking for a good wife for a long time
2006-12-01 19:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered how you're to support and care for your children, without a mate?
2006-12-01 19:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just use a donor and stay with your husband.ppl do that all the time
2006-12-01 19:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont then. Child has a right to know who its father is.
2006-12-01 19:07:19 · answer #11 · answered by miladybc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋