is it better or worse?
2006-12-01 18:08:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think it is the same, a bit uncomfortable the first few times but if she does kegal during and after she should tighten back up, the vaginal walls are a muscle, they can be toned!
2006-12-01 18:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is different after having a baby...
It's not better or worse just different because you don't have the time to spend 5 hours on foreplay... When the baby might cry and stop the whole thing you learn to move quickly.... Then as the child grows up you run the risk of an interuption such as my husband and I getting interupted by our 3 year old who said "Daddy!!! GET OFF OF MY MOMMY!!!" She was supposed to be in bed asleep it was 3 am turns out she needed a drink.. LOL
As for tightness with kegels and the knowledge of exactly what muscles are what a woman can be as tight or tighter than prebirth she can also have more controol if she can kegel well...
2006-12-01 19:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends everyone is different. Right after both of my boys sex went downhill because I felt so self concious about my body and tired from being up so late. But after a few months it was back to normal and as good as always! Just don't forget those Kegals!
2006-12-01 18:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know there are herbs to tighten and strengthen the pelvic area and there are exercises that we girls do.
But the most important thing is to avoid yeast in bread as its too saddening and confusing, Olive leaf is great to counteract the yeast. If a girl feels bad, she wont be in the mood for lovemaking.
The other important thing to have is Green tea and Evening Primrose oil with Fish oil as this helps to avoid postnatal depression. As does lots of fresh greens OR fruit, cos these help keep the pH balance of the body and blood.
A girl should also avoid any chemical shampoo or detergent etc
2006-12-01 18:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how the woman feels about herself. having a baby may have drawn the partners closer together so naturally the sex wou;ld be better. pregnancy changes a womans body and if she doesnt like her new post baby body she will not be as keen to get naked so the sex would get worse. for me personally sex has just got better because my partner and i are closer and we quite often have to sneak in quickies which are intense and fun
2006-12-01 18:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it was all the same for me after giving birth to my first son and it was still as good as ever.
i just gave birth to baby number 2 so when we start again ill letu know lol
but im sure we'll still have a great sex life
2006-12-01 18:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just as good as before. A woman is very fertile after birth so many women find themselves pregnant again soon after giving birth. Careful stud!
2006-12-01 18:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for some time you are very tender, but on top of that you have a baby to take care of and your entire body and mind shift into mommy mode and sometimes that lasts for years so you will be lucky to get any sex
2006-12-01 18:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
ladies having sex after baby with condoms because it is necessary for a couple having sex twice in a week if they have no sex they have no close relation ith each other
2006-12-01 18:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sanjeev V 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Different. In a vaginal delivery the vagina stretches and smooths out. So it is different. I would think a C-section would not change. However, stress also plays a role and no privacy, breast feeding lowers sex drive.
2006-12-01 18:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by 2010 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋