I told al my friends never to talk to me again just this week becuase they treated me like crap for too long. I found out that a few of my close freinds talked behind my back and my other friends just sat their and didnt say anything to say otherwise but instead just listened and laughed along with them. I have never treated anyone wrong and always helped everyone even if i need the same help. Now i just sit at home, play guitar, watch tv and study for the ASVAB. I dont want these to be the only things i do until i join the marines. What should i do?
2006-12-01 16:25:51 · 21 answers · asked by PLUSMC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Chill out, keep having some me time and eventually, you will have some new associates. I don't suggest LOOKING for ew friends or trying to replace the old ones; friendship is not something you have to FORCE.
2006-12-01 17:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard to know your friends talk behind your back. People like that will end up with a horrible life. Just do what I would do: say, "If you guys want to talk **** about me, then do it. I really thought you were my friends, but if you think it's funny to laugh at me you really aren't my friends." Don't care about what people say about you: that's the reason they do it, to hurt you. Don't let them push you over, be strong. Be a marine. Good luck.
2006-12-01 16:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, a similar thing happend to me... but not only my "supposely" friends talked about me but also my sister. Imagine that, I couldnt even count on my sister for backup.. but enywaz. after a long time not speaking to "my friends" I got into depression. It was bad, I didnt want to eat nor go out.. I began to be a BORING person (when i was the life of the party, you know)
Hopefully you dont go into depression.. find some other ppl to hang around with, it doesnt matter their not your age. Just anybody.
2006-12-01 16:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up and find some new people to be friends with
I think you are a very brave person telling those other people exactly how you feel (we all feel like doing that at some stage) - now just be a little braver and meet some new people who will treat you better.
2006-12-01 16:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask them to say again what they said with you as soon as you appeared in front of them. If what they said may be acceptable, no problems. If not, you should let them know you dislike what they did, and you can say goodbye with them. The best friends are the persons who always share with you, not with the others about you.
Right now, you should go on your study and make new friends.
2006-12-01 16:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hạnh xinh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People suck. People make up stuff all the time and I never did understand it . People will always gossip and make up stuff and if people are doing it to you, confront them and tell them you do not like it. When I was younger, some of my so called best friends said stuff behind my back or made up stuff about me. Leave these people behind they are not good for you.
2006-12-01 16:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some new friends, because you deserve better than that.
Just because some of your Friends sat in and listened without defending you doesn't mean they don't like you...they might just not want to be picked on themselves.
maybe these fools are jealous of you, but you seem like a really nice guy that i would be happy to have as a friend.
Don't sweat it man...you know who and what you are, and that all that really matters, but i know it still hurts to eb treated that way.
be well.
2006-12-01 16:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry 4 that but always remember: treat ur friends as u would love to b treated.
Also, find some new friends. Good luck!!!
2006-12-01 16:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. if they really cared for you and if they really treated you as their friend then they shouldn't do that. it's their problem. You deserve more than that
Go join a chess club photography club something like that and make new friends. =)
2006-12-01 16:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are meant to talk behind your back and laugh at you, is that what u call friends?
just find a new one who can really respect u.
2006-12-01 17:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by poe2t_indahouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋