She's been with her boyfriend for 1 year and five months. I've been with mine for two years. I'm happy for her but can't help feel a little jealous.
2006-12-01 16:04:20 · 15 answers · asked by california girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's understandable, dont stress it.
2006-12-01 16:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have not got any thought why you're jealous? What on earth do you would be jealous of? It sounds to me that they are making use of marriage as a band help to restoration their issues. Like, in the event that they have been completely happy and on no account had subject concerns and that they are basically certainly one of those meant to be mutually couples... honest adequate i could comprehend your jealousy. yet they are no longer! you have a open courting with a guy who i presume is powerful to you and neither of you have cheated on one yet another.while it comes all the way down to it, your courting holds greater value then theirs does. so which you have not got a hoop yet? vast deal except he's have been given some subject concerns approximately it he's not telling you approximately, it is going to happen. quickly, there is not any longer something to be jealous if along with her courting in any respect!
2016-10-04 15:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just feeling a sense of injustice. Here you are,... your best friend is so in love with this other person and they decided to get married. You have been with your boyfriend longer and your guy is just messing around, and wasting your time as you biological clocking is ticking and your growing older more everyday. If he was serious about your realtionship he would have proposed a while ago. Everyday conciously or subconciously you are realizing where you stand with him and his stance with you. Your friend has something serious and genuine you have a facade. I can be sure of one thing though....you may "love" your boyfriend or maybe not. But your not "in love" with him. There is a difference you can love your dog, and your mother, but you can't be in love with them. (unless your sick) Im sure you don't want anything bad to happen to your guy friend. You probably want whats best for him and you don't want to hurt him. But face it. You're not in love with the guy otherwise you wouldn't be feeling jealous....you wouldn't be asking this question...and right now you would be asking your friend first to be at your wedding and not the other way around. But of course your going to stick around because you put so much "emotional investment and time" and are not brutally honest with yourself and cut your loses. You'll look on everyday with the same old failed hopes that things will get better and he will get serious. But it won't; and you'll slowly learning that fact. sorry.
2006-12-01 16:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think you are jelous because your bf has not proposed to you yet, you feel that once your best friend gets married she won't stay in touch with you, and when the wedding comes you are going to wish that was you in the wedding dress with your boyfriend. Chill out girl. Your time will come and you will see it was well worth the wait.
2006-12-01 16:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only human. This is very common when you see someone is happier than you, have more $$ than you do, or have a nicer car then you, the jealously will creep up.
However you should apprecaite everything that you have. Don't compare as this will only make you suffer.
2006-12-01 16:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel envious.
you want what she has. you want a commitment from your boyfriend. that's a separate issue
swallow your envy and be the best friend you can knowing your time will come.
don't spend time worrying about what you don't have be grateful for what you do have.
BTW, two years is plenty of time for you boyfriend to know if you're the one. don't waste your time on a dead end street. time is the most precious asset god gives us besides our soul.
2006-12-01 16:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by mtnjpratt123 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you somehow feel that you might lost her as a friend and at the same time jealous for the fact that she got engage ahead of you.
right!
2006-12-01 16:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and good to feel jealous.
Consider that this is her moment and your moment still yet to come, but it will come and when it does, noone will be as happy as you.
2006-12-01 16:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by camellia_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think that ur been more time with your boyfriend, n she only 1 year. Can b proud about that.
2006-12-01 16:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IT'S NOT THAT YOU ARE JEALOUS. IT'S THE SIMPLE FACT THAT YOUR MAN HASN'T ASKED THE QUESTION YET. THE REASON FOR THAT MAY BE THAT HE IS NOT READY. DO NOT PUSH THE ISSUE. IF IT IS TRULY MEANT FOR YOU AND YOURS TO BE IT WILL.
2006-12-01 16:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you probably want to be engaged yourself and you are probably thinking i have been with my guy longer than she has
just be happy for her and dont sweat it
2006-12-01 16:19:01 · answer #11 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋