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2006-12-01 14:49:59 · 4 answers · asked by wray0x0wray 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I have been cheated on so many times. It was usually because the guy was shallow and I didn't realize it until it was too late. They were all cocky guys who thought they could have anyone they wanted and they did. How were you first approached by any of them? That can tell you a lot about what kind of guy to avoid. Usually the guys who are out to cheat try to push you into sex really early in the relationship or they're not always with you ( mentally). If they have too many female friends, that can be questionable depending on how those girls act towards your boyfriend. If they are touchy feely, not a good sign. Also, if he's had a lot of relationships, you need to ask yourself why that is. If he's had a lot, might mean he gets bored easily. Just try to put the pieces together as far as what is the common thing among all of these guys? It could be something with you, how you treat them or if you're emotionally distant. Could be something with them. You really need to sit and think if there is anything similar, almost like a pattern...
2006-12-01 15:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without further details sorry we cannot properly answer this Q.
But I will try - first thing is don't go blaming urself. It is destiny.
Second thing, try looking a little deeper into the situation. Have u been very obessive over ur men? Sometyms guys get freaked out if thier girls know about thier every move etc etc.
Do u get lazy once u have a bf and stop making an effort to dress up and wear make up etc? Sometyms we make the mistake of taking our relationships for granted once we have someone. But if u dress like a slob then he will look elsewhere. Without further details, I cannot say whether this is relevant to u.
Another thing that drives guys away is if u are always talking about the future... marriage for example... and having babies. Guys dont normally like to think about comittment so much but when u do find the one (and the day will happen, trust me) he will let u know himself.
2006-12-01 23:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lara D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible you are attracted to guys who have a wandering eye? Eventually you kind of have to assume it may be you. Are you overly clingy, or really distant? I'm not trying to be harsh, but it's kind of like that saying, "The world can't be wrong, but someone has to be." If it is happening over and over, it can't be entirely the fault of every guy, there must be something you've done or something about them that you choose.
2006-12-01 23:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to have so many boyfriends
2006-12-01 22:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by thelordparadox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋