ever since I graduated from eigth grade all my friends stoped talking to me.. It all started when my so called "best friend" started hanging out with them now I don't get invited anywere when we wanna hang out and catch up. I know she talks about me but what do I do I want to hang out with my friends but I NEVER get notified when things are happening I either find when it's happening or after when I see pictures and their jokes and comments about it on myspace.. Wy must my "best friend" be such a *****... I want to know how can I see my friends without her coming to start any dramma.
2006-12-01 14:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make more of an effort to be friends with them. yes, it will be hard, but just invite them to do lots of things and show them what they were missing out on. later once you've gotten to be at least a little closer talk to them and tell them u feel left out.
2006-12-01 15:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. I know what it's like to be in a situation like that.
I think you should invite all of your friends to go hang out with you and not invite the "best friend". Tell your friends how you feel and ask them if there's a way they cannot invite the "best friend". If they're real friends then they'll find a way to just go hang out with you. Another thing you could do is get together when the "best friend" is out of town or doing something else that the friends aren't going to.
If none of those work and the "best friend" ends up showing up then just try to make the best out of things. If drama comes up tell the girl straight up that you just came to catch up with your friends and you don't want to get into mess. If she doesn't step back and leave you alone then you can either leave or get the security (like the mall police) at the place to get her out if she tries to fight you and you don't feel like fighting her.
Those are my suggestions, I don't know if they are what you wanna hear-but I tried my best.
Good luck!!
2006-12-01 14:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say hang out with them and get to know them back or just make a new group of frinds you fit in with then throw a hottest party but dont invite them and start rumors all over the school talking about how much fun it was and make them jealous so they will invite you. But play it off when they ask.
2006-12-01 14:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Regina W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were your good associates faster or later i ought to assume. So, communicate about the circumstances you and your acquaintances experienced. element out issues which contain events you attended or once you went to one yet another abode. It receives extra accessible with time and also you'll construction up a extra valuable courting like you once had. good success which include your acquaintances.
2016-10-16 11:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i hate to tell you this but in a few years you wont even rember these people so go get new freinds why you wanna hang out with these stupid girls and stop refering to the ***** as your best freind kay good luck your gonna need it
2006-12-01 14:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by pamela b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite everyone over to your house but her. She should get the message.
2006-12-01 14:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your "BEST FRIEND" isn't a good friend. Time for some new ones?
2006-12-01 14:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend is smearing you reputation.
2006-12-01 14:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋