all she ever does is sleep around with guys get high .her motivition is getting some dick seriously help! shes 15 and was my favorite cousin i tell her pearents but they dont believe me they ignore me i tell a lot of people and they ignore me even the counselor ignored me!
im 14
2006-12-01 14:16:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she smokes weed
2006-12-01 14:23:21 · update #1
What your cousin does is her own business. You tried to warn her and help her, but if she refused, there's nothing more you can do. It's sweet that you care for your cousin and want to help, but people like that can be very stubborn. If she wants to throw her life away, fine. You're young and you shouldn't have to worry about this sort of thing. Move on and forget her. Maybe some day she'll grow up.
2006-12-01 14:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by obsdabeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist of all the only thing you can do is be there to support her not tell her whats right or wrong you cant help someone in less they want to help there self but you do need to be her support line she needs you to tell her your there no matter what her problem is and i will pray for her that's another thing you can do to help her she will have a hard time getting off the drugs but it will take time just let her know you believe in her even if no one else dose and she will come around good luck too the both of you.
2006-12-01 22:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by jay316-83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But does she actually smoke crack? Probably not...hopefully she's just in a phase and will get over it without getting pregnant. Be thankful she's not a real crackhead...I don't like that term because there is a world of a difference between someone who smokes weed and a crack addict, you really need to differentiate between the two.
2006-12-01 22:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by radioflyer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's practicing prostitution, you could see if there's a place that helps prostitutes, and ask them for help (big cities sometimes have places like this). And obviously, don't give her any money and discourage her parents from giving her any.
As for her parents, keep telling them--I guess that's all you can do. Or tell your parents. I think if you tell a counselor at school, they're required to report things like this involving minors. Ask them what they are required to report.
Good luck.
2006-12-01 22:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very special young lady here is what you do go to the police an tell them you want to talk to a detective an sit down with him or her an tell them what is going on an what you have tryed to do to help an they will help just be honest about it.
2006-12-01 22:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by bigdogrex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the one with the problem not you ,until she asks for help or gets into trouble there isn't much you can do . instead of trying to control her life try to be a good influence and hope she will come to here senses before it is to late . everyone is in titled to live a life she must have some expereices on her own to grow .
2006-12-01 22:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by chotpeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her and study hard and you will be the family star in the end and her flame will have burned out. People just don't want to hear.
If fact tell her you are going to be the family star and she'll be burned out. maybe it will shock her.
Study hard, be good and love your parents, as they must be doing a good job , you are a good girl.
2006-12-01 22:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by onedot.darling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a serious problem. Call the authorities to bust her- you can do it anonymously. She needs help. Keep telling adults until they listen and help you help her. At some point you have to let it go- drug addiction is a disease that can drain you as much as her. She is sick- not BAD.
2006-12-01 22:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay the h*** away from her. don't ruin your life just b/c your used-to-be fave cousin is done-for. i have the same situation. i still talk to her on the phone and some holidays but it's not worth worrying about. you're not going to change her and no one else will either until something really really bad happens. just stay away and hopefully that really bad thing wont happen to you. be careful. pray for her if you're religious but save yourself. ***you're only 14!!!*****
2006-12-01 22:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by flathead3131 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's sad that your cousin is sleeping around that's very dangerous. doesn't she no that having sex unprotected she can loose her life! I don't understand why her parents aren't listening. it seems like if they were concerned they would at least check into it. don't give up trying to help her oviously there's no one else trying.
2006-12-01 22:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by desperate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋