he is geting phone calls from some girl and he says that she just talks about me. but i spoke to her and she says that he is tring to find some 1 new. he is 21 and doesnt do anything for him self and really he isnt a good man.
2006-12-01 14:03:01 · 16 answers · asked by sexykitten3183 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either she's actually trying to pressure him to hook up with her and blaming it on him, or he's trying to hook up with her (and maybe other women). Thank God you haven't had any kids yet. You're young, dump him and get a divorce. You got married too young and he obviously isn't done shopping...
2006-12-01 14:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by MandaPanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly feel that he's so bad WHY the hell are you still with him ?? Thank god there are no children involved. You are both so young and obviously have a lot of growing up to do. I can't understand why he would have to discuss you another woman but then again are you sure you can trust what she is telling you. Perhaps they are both lying, who knows !! All l do know for sure is, you have a huge job ahead of you in love and trust department if you really want to stay married to this person. Good luck, you will need it !!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 14:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would believe what the other woman is telling u, yes he is trying to hook up with someone new, since u already know what he is, so he wants to find someone new who doesn't know him. if i were u this may be a good time to leave the marriage and get out from under it. if he won't do anything for himself, and isn't really a nice person, why would u want to be married to him? maybe u should just get a divorce from him.
2006-12-01 14:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 21 your husband is a good-for-nothing? haven't you ever heard that martyrs are being shot these days? aw come on, give yourself some REAL love and dump this guy while it's still early. you still have a lot of chance to find someone good
2006-12-01 14:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. Why did you marry him? You must have known he was going to cheat. Either live with his cheating or don't. I'd be more inclined to believe this other girl instead of your husband because you said he isn't a good man.
Also, way to marry young! Geez!
2006-12-01 14:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay no offense, but if he's not really a "good man" then why did you marry him in the first place? I would tend to believe the other girl and not him in this case. He's cheating or trying to one.
2006-12-01 14:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not a good man let someone else have him. why would you want to be with a man that is looking for someone new,cant do any thing for him self, and is not a good man?? well, find someone else.
2006-12-01 14:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ball check, dont play for 3 days with him, check the balls first chance you get, if the balls is out of air, your man is letting his air out with someone else. Test it calls, never lie.
2006-12-01 14:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by Faith Walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the facts, ANOTHER WOMAN is calling YOUR HUSBAND, and you are getting a LAME *** EXCUSE as to why ANOTHER WOMAN is calling YOUR HUSBAND. And the OTHER WOMAN is giving you a LAME *** EXCUSE as to why she is calling YOUR HUSBAND......see any themes here?
2006-12-01 14:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by haloperidol4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a detective to watch him.
2006-12-01 14:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋