I was wondering what you all thought about the situation. Hubby and I have been married six years. I have a son from a previous marriage and we have a little girl together and just found out another girl on the way.
2006-12-01 13:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by pinktaffy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Do you like the name? If not, I wouldn't use it.
2006-12-01 13:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, think of it this way.. whatever you choose, this child will have for the rest of their life. Is it a name you like? Is it something you can live with picking? If so than go for it...
If you do not like the name, or perhaps is something that will remind you of his ex, then the name may not be something you want to go with.
There are so many names to choose from, IF this is a choice you don't want then maybe explain to your DH that although the name is beautiful and perhaps special to him, you'd like to pick something together just as beautiful and as special to you both.
We are expecting our 3rd child on Dec. 8th and it's our very first girl. We have a tough time agreeing on names ourselves. We make lists and exchange them :)
Good luck!
2006-12-01 14:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and his ex-wife were planning on using a name for a boy, but they had a girl. We had a son together and named him that. My husband picked that out. I was okay with it.
2006-12-01 14:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's up to you of course,but I wouldn't like that. Surly there is a name that you both can come up with together that would be just as special as one he chose for a baby with another woman. It should be a special thing between just you and your husband. I hope it works out for you.
2006-12-01 14:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't use it. It would keep reminding me of hubby's previous life.
When things turn sour and people start pulling things out of the past, your baby's name might pop up. You don't want to involve her in that.
2006-12-01 13:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems a little weird, but if you like it, then go for it. Although it might seem a little weird to the child when they're older and ask you where you got her name..."Oh, well, daddy and his ex-wife wanted to name a baby that if they had one, but they didn't so we used it." Just a thought.
2006-12-01 14:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a jealous person? Cause if you are don't do it. cause you are always going to have that in the back of your mind that your husband will have that connection with her even thou they won't ever be together. if your asking these ? that's sounds like your having a little problem with it so its up to you.
2006-12-01 14:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jadyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is disrespectful and will remind you of the situation always you are a couple pick a new name together you are the mom with final say
2006-12-01 13:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU like the name... it's ok, but you asked for our oppinions, right? If I liked the name, I would go with it, and if I didn't I would disscus this with him. Gently though, because he may be partial to this name. And if he is, get him to tell you the reasoning for it,...
Good LUck and God Bless
Congrats too!
2006-12-01 13:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The names I like haven't changed just because I'm no longer with my ex. If you BOTH agree then go for it.
2006-12-01 13:57:18 · answer #11 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋