wht do u think is the right age 2 lose ur verginity?

Question

most of my friends have and i dont kno wht 2 do

Answer 1

honestly you shouldn't give your body to someone unless you love them and i mean with all your heart, ther is no "right" age, you should be able to be with the guy and not have to think about sex all the time, you can't just be sexually driven in a relationship, you have to have a "base friendship" as my bf's mother says. yes me and my bf have had sex but it has caused us problems and we would've never had gotten through them if it wasn't for our friendship, we realized that when we were sexually driven we had nothing, our relationship was literally falling apart in fron of us, i don't regret having sex with him(although i contracted an std) because i feel that the initial feelings for wanting to have sex was pure and i stand behind that, to me if you regret somthing you're saying that you wish you had never done it and i feel if you can't go back and change it what's the point ofwishing you could change it. but my advice to you is to find someone that you love, someone that you can see yourself growing old with and having kids with obtain a real base relationship and decide together when the time is right, don't set a date to loose your virginity by, you will only cause problems....alot of people say, that the best gift you can give your husband is your virginity so that he know you've stayed pure, but to me marriage is taken so lightly that even if you go give it to your husband then somewhere down the line you'll be doing someone else so if you give it to your first true love it will be special.

Answer 2

I was 16 and I don't necessarily regret that I was that young, but I do think if I'd waited a little longer I'd have chosen a better person to lose it to. I'm certainly not one of those arch-conservative-save-yourself-for-marriage people, but I think a lot of people would be better off if everyone waited until they were 18.

You have to decide for yourself, though. Don't do it just because you think you're the last virgin in school or whatever. There are very real consequences to sex: pregnancy, STDs, and the emotional impact, too, which most kids just don't anticipate. It hurts a lot more to be dumped by someone you had sex with than it does to be dumped by someone you didn't. Unless you're prepared to deal with the stuff that might come after sex, then you're not ready.

Answer 3

20

Answer 4

Dont compare yourself to your friends on guidance on when to lose your virginity. Its a very personaly decision that is really no one elses business. I lost mine when I was 17, I thought it would be a hugh deal, but it wasn't. Losing your virginity is so over glamorized, thanks to the media. If you are a girl (or a guy for that matter), the most important thing is that you are with the right person when you do decide to have sex. Don't let people pressure just because "everyone else is doing it". If you are a guy, I can see that pressure from your friends is something very difficult to deal with. Guys can be very harsh when it comes to sexuality. But when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend which I am currently engaged too, he regretted not being a virgin himself. He lost his when he was 14. It is a very sensitive subject for him and refuses to talk about it with me. He told me he wished he would have waited for the right person instead of the first pair of open legs. So to answer your question, The most important thing is that you love/care about the person your with, not how old you are.

Answer 5

Trust me, your friends have NOT done it. That's peer pressure and you don't have to go by what anyone else does nor thinks. They are not really your friends if they're pressuring you to do something you don't want to do. Do what only YOU want to do, not what someone else wants you to do.

Wait until YOU are ready to GIVE (not lose) your virginity to someone you love and who loves you. You will feel better about it in the end. If that's when you're an adult, then more power to you. Whether it be 21 or 41, you'll be better able to handle the responsibilities and the psychological, emotional, and physical areas of sex.

I gave my virginity when I was 32. My choice and when I was ready. Plus it was someone who was good to me then.

Answer 6

Hi. I think you should lose your virginity when you are in a mature and comfortable relationship. Unlike myself I lost it at very young age. So, if I were you, wait until you are ready and you are really in love with the man you lose it too. Because that is a gift that men cherish so don't just give it up to some cheese-ball nerd, like I did who dumped me 3 days after I lost it to him. Best of luck hun.

Take care. :)

Answer 7

20-25

Answer 8

Regardless of the abstinence crowd, 20 does seem to be a good age to lose one's virginity. There does seem to be a tendency for people of conservative backgrounds to marry early after high school as a resolution to the abstinence issue; otherwise, you can be "choosy" and find the right one, usually a friend, to lose it with.

Answer 9

loosing your virginity shouldn't be about when to do it based on peer pressure, it should be when you are ready and preferably when you are in a commited relationship preferably married to your partner of choice, this decreases the risk of STD's, AIDS, unwanted pregnancies, and the partner leaving you after getting some booty.

Answer 10

18 when you are legally an adult. Don't do everything your friends do it will just get you in trouble and you won't feel good about your self. Stay strong and stay smart and you will go very far in life.