HELP and fast!?!?!?!?!?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been going out for exactly a month yesterday but we started going out a week before my birthday the week of my birhtday he went hunting and i was fine because he was planning it for months and he felt REALLY ba dthat he was missing it it has been 2 weeks now and still no present and i dont want a present just to get a present i would like him to care enough to get a present
ALSO my good friend is going out with his best friend/my ex but it seems like she is flirting with him and he is flirting back but they are also flirty people BUT it was my friends and her boyfriends 6th month a day after my birthday and my boyfriend was helping them choose presents
BUT the thing is i really like him and i dont want to break up with him so i really dont know what to do aboutanything


ANY ADVICE??

Answer 1

You, your boyfriend, your friend and your ex should get together for a foursome.

Answer 2

Quit worrying about the present. Enjoy the guy while you have him and if something does happen later about the friend of yours flirting with him then just move on and try to get over it---at least you were with him first! :<)
I know it sounds kinda mean to be so blunt about it but I really think you should just be happy with him, show him what a good time he can have with you. Talk to him about things that interest him and try to spend a lot of time doing a variety of things together. If he chooses to move on then he wasn't worth having in the first place. If your good friend is such a good friend then she will not do something to hurt you, if she does, then she wasn't such a good friend after all.
Your boyfriend must be nice since he helps others---he may not have got you a present for MANY reasons...don't jump to any conclusions. Try to be honest and up front with him about each of your feelings and if you see that he doesn't care for you as much as you would like him too, just give him the best of yourself and smile and be strong and probably in time he will see what a great person you are. Don't get fooled into thinking you should shower him with physical attention either--if that is all he wants, then go find someone else who will treat you with the respect and admiration you deserve.
Please don't worry----relax and enjoy your time with all your friends.

Answer 3

you need to TALK TO HIM...

it might be that he's better at helping his buddy choose a gift because he doesn't really have to show emotion, ya know? guys sometimes can be a little inept when it comes to that sort of thing (nothing personal, fellas). but when it comes to you, he may not know how to show you how he feels... and he may not have purchased a birthday gift for you because he's afraid of screwing it up. if he screws up his buddy's anniversary gift, so what? it's not his butt on the line...

if you know he's flirty by nature, take that into account when you're analyzing the whole situation with your friend. but honestly, the best thing you can do is talk to your boy about it. if you let this fester, not only are you going to put him in a bad position, but you're going to put your friend in a bad spot as well. which, in turn, will put HER boyfriend in a bad spot. two relationships have the potential to be put up in arms over this... just think clearly about it before you proceed.

just let him know what you're thinking and what you're feeling. let him know that you didn't want a birthday gift just to get one -- you just wanted to know that he thought of you. and fess up to him that you're concerned about the flirtation between him and your friend. odds are that he'll deny it to your face, but maybe he'll be more willing to talk about it-- if he's really into you, he'll understand that it's getting under your skin and he'll do something about it pronto.

hope this helps... just keep your chin up. and if it turns out for the worst, don't be afraid to walk away. no guy is worth the drama. just remember-- you're the only person you can really count on, your instincts will tell you everything you need to know and you're the one that has to live with you every day! :)

Answer 4

Hmm, he might feel odd that you used to date his friend, maybe he feels like anything goes between the 4 of you. As far as the gift, it doesn't seem like you'll be getting one. I bet your good friend has badmouthed you to him too. Confront him, as nicely as possible, and expect the worst. Be ready to break up because it doesn't sound like there is really anything there. He senses that you "really like him," and he knows you'll bend over backwards to put your self-respect on the back burner because of it. Why are young girls so desperate. It's a big, big world out there and there are plenty of fish in the sea--especially for a young girl.

Answer 5

I mean, not to sound insensetive, but I think you might be overreacting a bit. I mean, that's perfectly normal, don't get me wrong, but I could easily see this becoming "one of those stories" that every couple has, to make your boyfriend sound like an idiot, in a sort of teasing way.

Don't take it personally; rather, try to mess with him about it.

"Hey baby, what do you want for Christmas?"

"A calender, so I can count the days until your dumbass gets me a gift."

Answer 6

ask him whats going on...i know what you mean about the gift..its the principle of it now..if he cared like he said he should of got at least something..he will tell you the turth if he dont then dump him

Answer 7

ask him whats going on...i know what you mean about the gift..its the principle of it now..if he cared like he said he should of got at least something..


see what he says about it, dont worry..

Answer 8

stick ur head in the toilet bowl and flush all ur confusion down and out of ur mind .

Answer 9

Men are dumb, don't take it personally.