My boyfriend of a year & a half says & shows me he loves me... he bought me a diamond (NOT ENGAGEMENT) ring for christmas, we have talked about getting engaged soon & getting married & having kids & we live together. He says I am the only woman he wants. In August of this year i discovered he had made an account with adult friend finder..yea a sex site, and it said where we live(city) and some info about him and hes "looking for a discreet relationship" , I confronted him, and he hasnt been on that site in a long time and today i was looking in the history trying to find a site i had been to the other day on our
computer and i see some websites like britney spears' crotch, and view more pics, so i clicked on the view more pics and there were women, some half naked, on myspace profiles, and a few weeks ago the same thing happened with campus calendars, something from his college that had skanky women on it, so what is going on? Is he lookin at these women with intentions of cheating?
2006-12-01 13:39:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love my boyfriend and i know that he loves me and we have been together almost a year and a half and we live together. We are practically engaged... Am I overreacting????
2006-12-01 13:40:55 · update #1
I think I am a good girlfriend, I take care of him when he is sick, I give him massages, I warm up the bed for him and take off his coat when he gets home from work, I make him meals, he can have sex (with me) whenever he wants, (it is great sex), everything he could want he has.. Or so I assume..
2006-12-01 13:48:26 · update #2
You seem to be more committed to the relationship than he is. If he really loved you, he wouldn't be sneaking around and looking at the porn. If you end up marrying him, don't be surprised if he continues to do these things. Best to get out of the relationship now.....
2006-12-01 13:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a shark on a sexual feeding frenzy and having you isn't slowing him down. He probably has you to take care of most of his sexual needs but his needs go beyond that. He is using you to satisfy his basic sexual needs while he continues to shop for more action elsewhere. Do not get engaged, do not marry him, certainly do not have a poor INNOCENT CHILD with this creep and MOVE OUT PRONTO! A year and a half is like a month in the long term scheme of things. Chalk this old relationship up to a learning experience and move out and on.
Next time, let God be your matchmaker...
2006-12-01 13:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by MandaPanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. heres my theory.. lol.. men are scaredd cr@pless about marriage. since u said u two have been discussing it, he decided he needs to get watever s3x stuff he can out of his system.. that doesnt mean he's going and having it.. cuz if he is then bouncee!! lol.. but if hes loking at it its not that bad.. i mean.., they r in denial most of the time.. thinking that wen they get married they wont get anythign and their girl wont be as atractive and s3xy as she is now.. which isnt true!! SO FOR U FEELLAAHZ!! WAKE UP! IF WE R BEAUTIFUL ONE DAY.. WE WILL BE BEAUTIFUL THE NEXT DAY.. RPOMISE!! LOL..so ya.. i woudnt worry too much about it.. i know its disturbing but im sure once the engangement happends he'll get over it.. especially wen u show him that u r better than some picture!! hehe
2006-12-01 14:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by ballroom babi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, sounds like a cad to me...lose him.
2006-12-03 00:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...if what you have at home is good you shouldnt need to look at anyone else...my opinion...
2006-12-01 13:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋