We're both 17 and she's at drama college and has a very big ego that means she actually says tha she's better than other people! I still love her though, as we've been friends since 5! Since been at college she's put people there before me all the time! i think it's great she has friends there but I've been there for her all the years, including last year when she was depressed. Now I'm going through it a bit and need her but she doesn't seem to notice. Like now I can't ring her for a week cos of apparant work, could she be trying to get rid of me?
2006-12-01 13:26:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fran,
Sounds like your friend and you are at a fork in the road. Be happy for her that she is travelling a road that is a little different than yours. That road will eventually lead back to you. She is probably just busy with life and has unintenionally neglected to notice that her dear friend needs her. Being friends since childhood has a special bond in the heart and although it may take awhile, your roads will meet up again. In the meantime, try to make new friends so that everyone grows & matures.
2006-12-01 14:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have known her since you were five does'nt necessarily mean you are going to be friends for life. As you get older you will be amazed at the number of people you get to know then lose touch with,its natural so don't worry too much. Other people come along, the main thing is not to stand too still and just be waiting for people. Try and do your own thing and persue your own interests, friends will come naturally through that, usually people of a like mind. Be yourself ...... P.s if she's a true friend then she'll realise whats she's missing and will come calling given time.
2006-12-01 13:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you all have out grown each other, or you are not in a place where you can be as close as you were before but that doesn't mean you won't remain good friends throughout the rest of your life. Evaluate the duration of your relationship has it been one sided the entire time or is this new, could it be whatever you are going through may be why you do not think she notices. No matter what you do pray about whatever it is you are going through God is always concerned about you.
2006-12-01 13:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by shawnedamarks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly it would surely be counted on how i'm about to die. If i'm about to be murdered or if that's unexpected i'd ask for 5 minutes to imagine about my life, the human beings in my life, and that i'd prey. If that's yet differently and that i have a reliable era of time i'd communicate with the human beings i respect and note them one very last time.
2016-11-30 01:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to expand your circle of friends. You should expect your friends to treat you the way you treat them and you should settle for nothing less. A friends will drop everything to help you out just the way you would for them. She doesn't sound like much of a friend. Heres a hug for ya sounds like its time to move on.
2006-12-01 13:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldnt be this persons friend anymore becuase like things arnt really going that well for you and you need to concentrate on your school and your prioritys and that friend will come back to you becaus they miss you! Good Luck!
Happy holidays!!
2006-12-01 13:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by thalia s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still your friend but your are missing her becauce she spending time with new people and it feels like she pulling away,but she not. Tell her how you feel and be truthful with her. It may bring you closer and you may find a sister in her.
2006-12-01 13:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has forgotten you as a friend and has used you all those years. Move on with your life .
2006-12-01 13:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her for sometime .. if she calls say u are busy ... you dont call her ... let her miss you... till then make new friends and enjoy. ( i can be ur new friend if u wish)
2006-12-01 13:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by katil007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends with other people
2006-12-01 13:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋