My bf has been talking to girls in a game on his cell phone, he flirts with them but hasnt done anything besides that,I know because I check on him constantly. We sparated a month ago but I came back the next day I did it because Im 8 months prenant with is baby and he asked me to marry him he says he wants to work things out but I just checked his phone and he's still playing the freaking game and chating with women online but the best part is he got mad at me and told me i shouldnt be checking his phone since i dont pay the bill and that i am insecure, he always twist things araund to blame it on me when he is the one doing something wrong
2006-12-01 13:14:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as he is just flirting and not touching , I dont think you have too much to worry about. I would keep an eye on him , if it leads to more. Give him the boot.
2006-12-01 14:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games with other girls now could spell trouble in the future !! I think your man has a lot of growing up to do !! Trust me a baby will not necessarily make him change his ways.He had no right to get angry with you, he is the one doing the wrong thing. There is no way in hell that l would even consider marrying this guy until he proved to me that he can be a mature and responsible parent and partner. There is every possibility that will never happen though, so be prepared. You and your baby need a guy, you can both trust and depend on. Is he that person ?? Think about it and then decide what you want to do. It doesn't sound to me that there is a lot of trust between the two of you now, and a marriage would certainly not fix that problem . I wish you the best of luck with bubs and hope you make the right choices in your lives.
2006-12-01 21:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S the one that's insecure so he tries to put the guilt trip on you. If the tables were turned, believe me, he'd have a fit if you were playing games with someone else. If it's not exactly working now, don't fall for the illusion that everything will change once you're marriage or have a child. Chances are they will get worse.
2006-12-01 21:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about....you both aren't married and he is already having to chat with other girls. do you want to feel like nothing for the rest of your life? cause that is all he is going to make you feel like. then your child will grow up learning to disrepect you because they will see the way there father treats you. STAND UP FOR YOUSELF AND GET OUT.
2006-12-01 22:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by mindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is human just like yourself, he'll always be attracted to other women just like you would to other men, and i guess if he loves and respects you he would stop. and as for the cell phone...ya if my boyfriend look through my phone i would expect him to pay the bill but do what you feel is right.
2006-12-01 21:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't mature enough to stop playing with other girls then he isn't mature enough to marry. Being pregnant is not a good reason to marry.
2006-12-01 21:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have jealous boyfriend syndrome: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=jealous+boyfriend+syndrome
Here are the steps you take: 1) Don't be such a jealous BxIxTxCxH. 2) Don't be such a sneaky BxIxTxCxH. 3) Quit being such a BxIxTxCxH.
2006-12-01 21:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ecesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you.If you are that jealous now how are you going to be if you two get married.Need to stay in school learn to spell and write.If you two get married are you going to follow him around where he goes,I DON'T THINK SO.I know you are going to have a baby but it sounds you need to get away from him want be nothing but a divorce in a short time so why go threw it now save the money you and him will need it to raise a baby at how old.STAY IN SCHOOL GET AN EDUCATION NO MORE BABY'S.................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
2006-12-01 21:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months pregnant and he's flirting with other women. and you're think of latching onto this guy????????
"You must be some kind of friggin' genius private Gump!!!!!"
What a dingbat.................
2006-12-01 21:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make him pay child support when that baby arrives and You need to move on to someone who will appreciate you.
2006-12-01 21:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋