First trip to the gynecologist...?

Question

What is the first visit with a gynecologist like for a girl in her mid teens. Scary? Painful? Anything would be helpful.

Answer 1

First of all make sure you are at least some what comfortable with the doctor. it would probably be best if it was your moms dr. too, or someone else who you trust should give you a referral. Now on to the ? at hand. I'll admit i was nervous at my first check-up but it wasn't that bad that might be a bit of discomfort, maybe a bit more if u r a virgin, but it still won't hurt. the dr will use lubricating jelly for less discomfort. normally they will take a couple of swabs from inside of you and its all over in a minute or 2.

Answer 2

No routine trip to the gynecologist should ever be painful. It's normal to be nervous just because it's unfamiliar territory. But the best thing you can do is try to relax. The exam itself is slightly uncomfortable, but if you can relax, it's less so.

First the nurse will probably take your temp and your blood pressure and ask for the first date of your last period. Then you'll undress and the doc will come in for the exam. Mine usually listens to my heart and lungs first, then has me lay down for the breast exam (just pressing in circles around your breast, like a self-exam... it's a good way to learn how to do it yourself.) Then, you'll need to scoot your bottom down toward the end of the table, put your feet in the stirrups and let your knees fall to the sides. It's not particularly pleasant to feel so exposed, but you have to remember that your doc is a professional and doesn't think of your genitals any differently than she would your ears or your feet. She'll probably use the smallest speculum she has since you're young... this is where you really want to try to relax. You can feel it going it and there's a sort of feeling of pressure when it's opened up, but it should not hurt; be sure to pipe up if it does. The Pap smear is very quick, just a couple of swipes on your cervix with a long q-tip (some docs use something that looks sort of like a mascara wand... it's supposed to get a better cell sample.) Once the Pap is done, she'll take the speculum out and do a manual exam by putting two fingers in your vagina and using the other hand on your abdomen to feel your ovaries and your uterus. Then you're done. She'll probably have you get dressed then come back in to talk to you about when you'll get the Pap results, your sexual history, birth control needs, etc...

The thing to remember is that, even though it's not the funnest way to spend half an hour, it's a responsible step toward keeping yourself healthy.

Answer 3

It's non of the above. Although you might be scared or worried there isn't really much to be concerned about. You'll get asked a bunch of questions about your menstrual and health, also sexual activity, if any. When you get a pap it is uncomfortable feels like a lot of pressure, some girls hurt worse, some don't hurt at all. To feel more at ease make sure you choose the gender of your gynecologist. Sometimes girls feel more comfortable talking to other girls or being looked at by other girls. Don't worry it's nothing to be afraid of, and the pap isn't that bad.

Answer 4

It should not be scary OR painful. There may be some discomfort, when the doctor inserts a gadget called the speculum into your vagina so s/he can take a look inside. But it should not hurt. Don't be afraid to speak up if you are uncomfortable with any part of the exam. And most importantly, just try to RELAX, as that will help a great deal with the whole process!

Answer 5

Be relaxed, try to think of something pleasant. If you're tense it could hurt. But just remember that your in the hands of a professional who does this everyday and you have nothing to be embarassed about. If you have a bad experience at a gyno, switch to another one. My gyno is the nicest lady, I have gone to some really bad ones that were hurting me (male gynos, too rough) I never went back to them, and now that I found this lady, I'll never switch! Maybe you can bring someone you trust with you to your visit to make you feel more comfortable, there nothing wrong with that. My gyno told me to do so if it made me feel better. But now going is no big deal, just routine.

Answer 6

Funny story about my first trip to the gyno...

I was SO nervous laying on the table with a thin sheet laying over me as a complete stranger was dinkin around down there..and then my cell phone rings. The gyno could tell i was really nervous and said that I could answer it if it would take my mind off of being nervous. So I did. And the first thing my friend on the phone said was "Hey. What are you doing?"

Haha!

Answer 7

Its not painful, but its not fun. I have been going for years and I never get used to someone taking such a close look at my crotch!! It will be a little awkward, and I think it always is. But they doctors usually put you at ease. Just remember, they do this all day, so it's not a big deal for them. The visits are very short too. You'll think "thats is?" when its done.

Answer 8

Generally it is scary for someone your age. I am in my mid 20's and still don't like to go, but it is one of the necessary evils of being female. Take someone with you that you trust, like your mom, sister, whoever makes you comfortable. And remember that in most states it is required by law that there be a female nurse in the room with you at all times while you are being examined.

Answer 9

Its not painful at all. It's normal to be nervous, but there really is nothing to worry about. The people who do this are professionals and are usually very friendly. Just try to relax

Answer 10

first, don't be scared. Always make sure there are 2 people inside the room..esp. if it's a male doctor, he should have a medical assistant right next with you inside the room. 2nd, the dr. will tell you everything they would do so that you know. Also, make sure to ALWAYS ASK QUESTION...don't hesitate to ask any concern you might have,they should understand.