2006-12-01 12:53:13 · 22 answers · asked by Voodoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How bout you just come and cheat on her with me papi?
2006-12-02 05:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by DGabbys 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Telling her to stop will not work but maybe giving her an ultamatem might. Tell her she either stops or that is it for the two of you. I know you probably love her and I know it has to hurt you a lot but you cannot keep putting yourself in this predicament. It has to stop one way or another because I know you can never be happy living like this. Good luck.
2006-12-01 22:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. I am sorry. Betrayal is so painful. It hurts to the very core. As long as you keep forgiving her and taking her back she think it's acceptable to it. She may think "Yeah, he'll be mad and hurt for a while" "Then he'll get over it.
I heard a definition of love a long time ago that stuck with me.
"Love isn't what you feel for someone else. Love is the feeling you have inside being with that person." By this definition it sound like you are suffering hurt, deceit and devastation from this person. That isn't love.
Letting go, no matter how hard or painful. You will open yourself up to love and real commitment from another. Good Luck
2006-12-01 21:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just by that sentance means she has done it more than once. And she is gonna keep doing it until there a consequences for HER actions!! Stop being a doormat, set some boundries, and keep your eyes open. If she strays then leave. She could give you diseases, and she has broken the vow you took with marriage. Good luck
2006-12-01 20:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by jj2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest ask her what she wants Spoil her I havent cheated on my hubby but When i dont get attention from him I love the attention I get from other guys not b/c I look 4 it but it makes me feel like I'm beautiful, attractive. Maybe she needs more of your love affection attention, she may act like she dont want it but she's just trying to be tough or she's never felt loved and now she surprised and shocked. That's how I am!! If you have dont all that then she's just taking advantage of your love!
2006-12-01 21:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by MONICA P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your wife must not be a good wife if she's cheating on you divorce her *** and find another good looking women like me for exampleim single and looking for a man okayyyyyyy
2006-12-01 20:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by jayjaywalkler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some books on various detective tactics. Leave some business cards of thoses services on the table. Maybe she will get the silent message.
2006-12-01 21:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have to tell your wife to stop cheating on you when she said i do that was her vowing not to cheat on you no offense but that is a pretty dumb ? and i think i just got dumber for answering it
2006-12-01 21:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by bjames_0050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is cheating, why would you want to stop her? I sure would not want anyone that is cheating. You know what they say, once a cheater always a cheater. You may stop her this time but she will do it again, I promise you that
2006-12-01 21:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her to stop or you are leaving or tell her how would she feel if you were cheating on her
2006-12-01 20:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by gjfdgoperjgoljerojgoirejj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋