my husband is he a flurt what do think . help me?

Question

i have a question i think my husband is a flurt.i meean to say whenever he saw a good looking girl he keeps starring at her even infront of me. when i get offended he said he will not do this again but do this again. do ou think he is a flurt or u think this is the habit of every man

Answer 1

IT IS BECOME HABIT OF SOME PERSON BUT THIS TYPE PERSON CAN DO NOTHING AND WITH PASSING OF TIME HE MAY CHANGE BUT YOU KEEP ON WATCHING AND REALISING HIM THAT IT IS WRONG.

Answer 2

You are asking this question. This itself indicates that you a person of low esteem, not confident and immature.
This is a very common habit of all the active men. There is no problem at all in this. If he is looking at a beautiful girl, this keeps him young, smart and good looking. After all he is just having tonic by seeing girls. The effect of this you will feel in the bed with him.
There is no harm, let him do it but just keep a watch that it should not exceed to the next level of getting involved with someone else.
good luck & have a wonderful married life.

Answer 3

This problem is CERTAINLY controlable! You need to sit down with this man and have a very serious talk to him about how you are feeling about this situation and what is going to happen or else____<<<(circumstances) This is never an ok thing to do, and if you married for love, and are still in love, this should not be happening! I know certainly as a christian it is certainly not ok, and your husband should not be flirting around. That disgusts me! Marriage is to be cherrished, and what could lead you to think he loves you so much when he is obviously showing more interest in other women before your eyes? I know this is NOT the behavior of every man. My grandmother and grandfather have been married for many many years, and they are still so very preciously in love. They support each other, take perfect care of each other, show obvious love for each other, and there realtionship was formed through God. Everything they do is in God, and neither is ashamed. They have loved him all there lives and my grandma has told me so many times she could not have wished for a better life. Perhaphs you are thinking "well maybe they're just old fashioned". I can also tell you there was a couple married at my church about 2 weeks ago. They are young, and very much in love and trust each other in their relationship. I do not see any such qualities in her husband, nor do I see this horrid thing in any true christian man I have ever known. Every couple is so sweet. Another woman named Laurel (also young), is incredibly succesful and a blessed christian woman, and her and her husband are like newlyweds everyday! I wish you could see them! They are so loving and tender towards each other, and have the biggest sence of humor and joy. Of course no marriage is all sunshine and happily perfect, but I can tell you I know from seeing these men that they would not think twice to do such things, especially not in eyesight of their women. They dont want to! They love there sweeties with all their hearts and they are loved as equal in return. They are truly blessed! This is how marriage should be. Just as the vows are said. And it works so clearly and lovely when it is formed and under God!
I am so sorry that your husband is doing such a thing to you, and it needs to be taken care of! I will be praying for your relationship! Dont set low standards for this! He is your HUSBAND, not your boyfriend, which would not be acceptable in that case either.

Bless you and best wishes! I would not let him sit back and do this repeatedly. Sometimes people like this are like little children, and see how far they can push their limits, with all respect.

Answer 4

There Can be couple of reasons to it :
1. Its his habit
2. You are not taking care of him like you use to. he thinks you dont love him the way you use to in past.
3. may be your looks are changed i mean to say maybe no more sexy looks
4. Long time not been in bed with him.


Solution to it :- (1) If its one of the above then fix it. (2) If not then You start starring guys infront of him so he can realize how u felt and when he complains tell him you felt the same when he did same stuff... If u cannot do that then tolerate him!

Answer 5

Go back to school. Learn to spell. This post was exceptionally bad.

Anyways, I don't think that your husband looking at another woman is really so bad. He's just looking! It's normal behavour. Women are beautiful creatures.

My lover looks at other women, but I'm secure in knowing that he loves only me and besides, I'm not half bad myself.

You need to work on your self esteem. You may also need to work on the security level of your relationship if you are worried that your husband will stop looking and start touching. Does your husband not appreciate you as much as he should?

Answer 6

He is just being another male. Remember man is a polygamic animal by nature. But be careful whether he crosses the lakshmanrekha. Another way to make him more conscious is that you start looking at other men in front of him and also discuss the other men with him.

Answer 7

Ita a general tendency to eye a beautiful woman.
But if he respects u, he shud not do it when u are around- it says that he wont flirt
As he is caught by u, u can say he may go up to her in ur absence.
These issues r to be sloved by talking to each other in a very cool and calm way, orelse they may affect the married life

BOB

Answer 8

First off, it's spelled FLIRT.
Second, staring is not considered flirting. It's a natural thing for a guy to stare at something (or someone) attractive, it's just that your husband is less discreet than some. Don't take it personally.

Answer 9

how do u look to ur husband? how much pretty looks u have, he always wants to see new colours. It is by nature. He may not sleep with them. Nothing...to worry...just keep him busy..or next time he looks at other lady, call that lady and tell that he wants to talk to her. if u do it with 2 to 3 women, he would set alright.

Answer 10

It's a bad habit. Plain and Simple. Even if he genuinely feels sorry, he probably finds it tough to stop, like an alcoholic finds it hard to quit immediately.You should help him overcome it-if he really wants to, that is.He must exercise self-control and will-power, and you can help him to do it.

Answer 11

hi, yeah i know how it feels. best thing is avoid going out with him after telling ur problem for few days.or just dont be with him just walk ahead of him so that u dont watch him seeing other women.its waste telling him not to see.they just can't control.flirting is different thing they start joking and talking with other women thats when the real problem starts. dont let him go to that level .good luck .