then we had a whole talk about me hurting her and not caring and im just the big bad wolf that hurts people and thinks it is funny. all i did was come home 15 mins late and be sad and she thinks im some devil. she thinks she is the only one suffrering but im suffering even more she really dosnt understand the situation here. how can she find out. she thinks everything i say is a lie. how can i love anyone who is so vurbally abusive.she expects me to be one of those perfect happy families that smile and laf and have fun. how could i. she said i had everything i wanted clothes food, a home, but i dont want any of those. all i wanted was love and she lacks at that. she has no idea.
2006-12-01 12:35:12 · 5 answers · asked by DiaBEEtus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are people like your Mom who think that if you have material things, you shouldn't be depressed. Material things don't count. I've heard people say things like: What do you have to be depressed about? You have a good husband, a beautiful home, etc. etc. etc.
Depression comes from within.
It sounds like your Mom just doesn't get it. I believe she loves you and is concerned about you, but doesn't know what to do for you. If there are any other adults you can talk to about depression, please do so.
Being put down and thought of as a devil and a liar certainly isn't helping.
2006-12-01 12:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you see a counsler in school maybe or one that can speak with the both of you. Instead of getting upset tell her if she thinks that there is so much wrong with you then pay for some one you can talk to like a pychologist. Her insurance will cover it. If she has insurance. Then the pychologist will get to the bottom of what is bothering you and will help your mom understand what you are going through.
2006-12-01 12:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter. Express everything you feel, and why. Give it to her and make sure she knows it is not to hurt or attack or mislead, but only to get some kind of understanding. Give it to her and arrange a time to discuss it later so she has a chance to read it, come to grips with it and prepare to talk about it. Make sure she agrees not to talk about it before that time. I hope this helps.
2006-12-01 12:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
life's what u make it and if u wake up depressed ur hole days going 2 be like that it don't hurt 2 smile try 2 live more happer and let ur mom in on how u feel or let it go and start new
2006-12-01 12:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by greeny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell her the truth about it. Like maybe for example show her this question you've just asked. That might work. Also a therapist would help.
2006-12-01 12:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋