My husband never talks to me or is even involved in our marriage, we have no physical relationship either. I have talked to him over and over about it but nothing changes so I had to find some happiness somewhere right???? I have never met with these 2 guys but enjoy chatting with them a lot and the talk is not erotic, its just talking.
2006-12-01 12:20:52 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope, it's not cheating. It's flirting. And as long as you don't take it further if morally ok. In my eyes.
Your husband may think differently, so don't spoil everything by letting him find out.
2006-12-01 13:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If your hiding it, or trying to keep it a secret then you know the answer. Yes, it's cheating whatever type of form, doesn't matter it's cheating. Talk to him about how unhappy you all are, if he's interested in listening and making changes then work on the marriage. If not then get out, why stay and hide things! Regardless you talking to other men to find comfort is just wrong. And if they know your married and that your going through some problems, there only using you, buying time. Eventually you'll take it to the next level men are men, these guys waiting for the opportunity to present itself. Just remember your a piece of a** to those other men. Your husband respects you, maybe not getting along with you right now, but has enough love and history with you to respect you.
2006-12-01 12:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you only talking with men? That could be a hint. Like someone said "you are playing with fire and you could get burned. Either find some girlfriends to chat with or dissolve your marriage because this is a form or a beginning of cheating. You are using these men for your emotional needs. You are not physically cheating, but emotionally you are cheating because you are gaining something from these men. You could try counseling. It might help. If he won't go, you go anyway, by yourself so you can figure out what you want to do with your life. I think, you might already know. It is erotic yet, but we can see what is coming down the road if you don't change something. Pray for guidance. You will need a lot of prayer to get through this. See if you can find some Christians to pray with you and help you. Best wishes!!!
2006-12-01 12:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....Because you had to find some happiness somewhere?? WTF Your happiness should be with your boyfriend. Would you oppose if he were chatting to 2 women? No, it may not be erotic now....but it may soon become more than just chatting. You need to figure out what is going on in your life.....you almost sound in denial or something.....just tell your boyfriend if you have nothing to hide, or are you afraid to? See, this is the kind of stuff that breaks couples up......My advise to you is to be honest and let him know!!
2006-12-01 12:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not and it's good 2 feel happy and good that thy can make u smile but would u feel upset if ur husband was talking 2 some girls if so then maybe u should'nt talk 2 them guys any more and if ur husband can't make u happy any more and not going 2 change 4 u then ur going 2 cheat on him soon
2006-12-01 12:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by greeny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 10:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are not happy and need it elsewhere, then do just that! Find it elsewhere, but not while you are married. It is a form of cheating especially if your hubby dosent know about it and it is so if you are talking to these men about your marriage problems. You should be talking to your hubby. not them. If he is too much of a jerk to work things out, then its time to move on.
2006-12-01 12:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy in your relationship, you ought to get out of it before starting to get emotionally involved with somebody else. Or try to improve the relationship you're in. But the way things are going it's going to get complicated, if you ask me.
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2006-12-01 12:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Viki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just talking and nothing sexual, I wouldn't say it's cheating. I would say, however, that you need to get into marriage counseling or maybe consider a divorce - you sound pretty miserable in the relationship you have now.
2006-12-01 12:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I guess it fills the void from your husband never wantting to talk or do anything. But be careful as this could lead to something more than just talking and since your already not loved and lonely in your marriage things could happen quickly .
2006-12-01 12:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you are looking for some male attention because your husband is not giving that to you. Perhaps be the entertainment coordinator of your relationship with your husband and make up some fun things to do...how about learning how to scuba dive?
2006-12-01 12:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋