How can I look flirty but not draw the wrong kind of attention?

Answer 1

wear a minny skirt and leggings and a long shirt but your skirt haz to be a grunge type of jean skirt

Answer 2

Flirting is behavior. If you dress "flirty" you Will attract the wrong kind of attention. Try to think of it more like dressing "fun". Bright colors maybe. Something not too formal or strict. Other than that cover yourself, and behave flirty, and you'll be golden.

Answer 3

Flirting draws the RIGHT kind of attention??
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever. I John 2:15,16,17
Proverbs 10:10 He that winketh with the eye causeth sorrow: but a prating fool shall fall.

Answer 4

Dress nicely, but don't show too much skin. You probably are looking to dress preppy or popular like every other conformist. Therefore, wear tight shirts but not too low cut. Tight jeans. Whatever's in style. Keep your hair out of your face so people can see you better. Dress however the person whose attention you want would like to see, but also how you want to dress. Be happy with what you do.

Answer 5

Now Britney = "wrong type of flirty and wrong type of attention"
Lindsay Lohan = always flirty and never wrong type of attention

sorry, that's the best I can do for the young crowd.
Think 'classy', not 'sassy'...and flirty is sometimes how you act, not how you dress.
Don't laugh too loud on purpose, just laugh out loud if it's genuine and truly funny.
And dont' drink til you puke, either.

Answer 6

I would say go with the layered look depending on your age. If you wear a very low cut sweater, with a thin tank underneath you will probably look pretty hot. Other options include wearing a skirt with boots and a well fitting shirt. Also make sure your clothes fit well. Baggy clothes on a girl make her look like she doesn't take care of herself; no matter what size the girl is. And the BEST way to look flirty is to SMILE and make eye contact. This works no matter what I have on. =)

Answer 7

well, are you trying to attract a man like yourself or a woman? If you are posing as a woman, then try false eyelashes and wear a turtleneck to cover the adams apple. If you are going to go as a man for another man, then I think the straight on approach would work. You know men, they are usually pretty promiscuious.

Answer 8

So let me get this straight: you want to attract attention from people you find attractive, but not from people you don't find attractive, right?

Don't do it in your clothes, or hair; do it with your body language and your looks. That way you can be selective in the moment about who gets to see the flirty you and who doesn't.

Answer 9

Wear cute swingy skirts with tops with ribbons or beading detail, and cute sandals or ballet flats. Attention grabbing and makes you stand out- in a good way.

Answer 10

Usually factor of attraction hiding behind of surface . You trying to look flirty, you trying just to look as you picturing yourself....that which drives your trying does not represent a mask you trying to build...it contain true motive...and that true motive which you desperately trying to hide attracting its equivalent or its opposite....That true motive has two sides too. That is how ego defending itself, create more and more divisions covering your true motive, make you afraid of true motive, make you hide it...and not even look at it...The solution is just to face it and if you do not like that motive, observe it with no judgment and it will dissapear. Yet if you truly like it, embody it...

Answer 11

You cant, flirting leads to the ''wrong kind of attention''. Just dress modest, and your personality will do the rest.