- Seek to understand and to be understood.
- To hear and to be heard.
- Seek to understant each other's (men & women) interests and concerns allowing creative solutions.
- Strive for resolution each can accept.
- Develop common ground rather than focus on differences.
- Negotiate through cooperation rather than adversarial strategies.
- Problem solving negotiations in which both parties are proactive.
- Taking responsibilities for one's own actions/behavior, rather than blaming the other gender.
- Treat the process needs of your opposite gender with respect.
- Explore differences in perspective, interests, and desired outcomes rather than react to them.
- To let go of past frustrations (of each other) in order to have a clear view of future possibilities... :-)
2006-12-01 20:08:25
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answered by Anonymous
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They don't have a collective mind, you know. Women are individuals.
Why don't you get to know one woman and find out what she individually wants. That's a better way to go.
2006-12-02 16:19:11
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answered by Tobias F 2
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We don't know. That's why we're hard to figure out. We're pretty vocal, so as soon as we know, we'll let you know (especially if we think you messed up and did the opposite of what we wanted).
2006-12-01 23:23:25
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answered by Mariposa 7
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the ability to communicate or at least try
a sense of humor
kind
supportive
someone who knows how to please a woman on many levels , or at least learn;)
faithfulness
devotion
a good sense of hygiene, (lol)
romantic (doesnt have to be all the time!)
likes to cuddle once in a while (mine actually likes cuddling more then me!)
intelligence
strength/protectiveness
ect. ect. ect...lol
oh and a nice tush, strong arms & chest (i like hands too..lol) pretty eyes, doesnt hurt either...
oh and a good kisser... nice lips
lol....
2006-12-01 22:25:57
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answered by ? 4
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our own way.
and a man who makes sure that we only get our own way when it is genuinely beneficial to us. A "yes dear" man loses his appeal mighty quick.
2006-12-01 20:55:59
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answered by Anonymous
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They want things that they are able to get.
2006-12-02 07:35:04
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answered by Rebornie 3
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to treat like a real woman. lol
2006-12-02 05:34:25
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know about all the others, but I want it ALL!!!!!!
2006-12-02 07:40:56
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answered by Jaded 4
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All the benefits...
2006-12-01 20:22:49
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answered by Anonymous
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a pimp
2006-12-01 19:49:37
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answered by wafflehouse 4
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