I'm just wondering here. There is a man I work with whose wife had her legs amputated two years ago. I guess out of depression she asked him if he ever thought of cheating on her since it's kind of awkward for them when they have sex. He told her he has thought about it but doesn't want to. I feel that when you marry someone you marry the person they are, not their penis/vagina. I tried to give him the best advice that I knew to give. My question is how many of you think it would be okay for the spouse to have a lover if the other spouse can't please them sexually?
2006-12-01 11:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In sickness and health, I would never cheat on my wife over any medical problems she may suffer from,or any other reason. If I was lucky enough to have one.
-NmD!
2006-12-01 11:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The lack of legs would not keep one from pleasing their partner sexually. And no I would not leave my husband if he could no longer perform sexually, and would not cheat. A marriage is a life time commitment for better or worse, sickness and health. The loss of ones limbs or ability to perform sexually is not a reason to obtain a divorce. God bless****
2006-12-01 11:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never you marry for better for worse and if you really loved them you would find a way where it worked so it could pleasure both partners no matter what.
2006-12-01 11:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with you. time with change everyone. i'd already commited to my wife not by her appreance, but who she is. that's why i married her. through good time and bad time. i will be there for her. (unless she cheated on me then i have to dump her like a hot potato)
2006-12-01 11:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why marry someone if it is just about appearance?
2006-12-05 07:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm a leg-man, yes, I'd cheat.
2006-12-01 11:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no, true love means accepting the ways he /she is .......never differentiate because that means you don t really love that person......,
2006-12-01 11:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by tritran5555(poetri) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋