my friend has a crush on me. i don't like him. i'm gonna tell my friend to tell him i don't like him. plus, i already have a boyfriend. my friend's nice, but he needs to find a girlfriend that's not me! what should i do?
2006-12-01 11:05:39 · 12 answers · asked by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he gave me this ring for Christmas. it was sweet, but i ONLY like him as a friend.
2006-12-01 11:53:00 · update #1
look around for another girl that has the same interests as him. there has to been someone out there for him.
also..make sure u talk to your beau now..make sure he dunt get the wrong idea. it could turn ugly.
you should never get another friend to let a guy u like down. that is weak and immature..sit down with your "friend" let him down gently and ask him if he would mind if u looked around for him.
if he says no. respect that!
2006-12-01 11:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren Lovely â?¥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing right now with my one of my best friends!!! I don't want to lose him as a friend, but at the same time, I don't like him in that way and never could. Just be completely honest with him. And word of advice: Don't do the "friend tell him" thing. Tell him yourself. At least respect him enough to do that. And do it to his face...not over the phone or the net.
2006-12-01 23:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest and tell him how much you like him, but that you don't like him romantically. Remind him that you're seeing so-and-so.
I suggest that you offer to return the ring. If he wants you to keep it, as a token of your friendship, and you are sure he didn't spend TOO much money on it, then graciously accept the gift.
continue to be friendly and supportive of him. He sounds like nice guy.
2006-12-01 21:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be totally honest with him about everything. And let him know that you value your friendship but nothing more can happen between you two since you have a boyfriend and dont see him like that.
2006-12-01 19:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love some one, you only see them, not there circumtances. i have love two people that have got pregnant by other people and yes they have loved there partners, the second love, she had a baby by a married man, it hurt me as we had a friendship before she got pregnant, i am still sharing a house with her now, and i still love her, thats how you know its love, when it hurts and you try to walk away and it hurts more, the thing is i will let her decide what she wants as i have decided to be her friend if she wants me, i love her even tough she is carrying some elses baby, he is a solicitor and is looking after her, one day i will know when to embrace love with her and when to let go, that is the only way to embrace love for real, God bless all those owh have been in my position, patrick yates,
2006-12-01 20:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by patch747 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that has been my friend since 3rd grade. This year, he finally told me that he likes me. I don't like him that way, so I told him that, and now we are just friends.
2006-12-01 19:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him what you really feel about him. tell him that you are just being honest and you dont really want to hurt his feelings.. explain everything to him and ask him if you both can still have the friendship you have before...
2006-12-01 20:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by fudgee_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh i dont know, tell him and stop being friends that the only way
2006-12-01 19:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shouldnt nobody else tell him u should tell him he is ur friend y would u embaress him by having someone else to do it he is ur friend.just be honest with him
2006-12-01 19:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweetoceana204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you think it's sweet that he likes you, but you're involved with someone.
2006-12-03 13:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by Gordonsnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋