i was unhappy... so i broke it off.... i havent been happy for awhile... and a few of my friends want me to get back with him... and he wants me to get back with him and give it another chance... honestly i dont want to... but what do u people think... ?cuz he always went out ... doesnt answer my calls... stays out till 3am.... goes to bars and clubs with his single friends... and when i tell him i wanna spend time with him and hes sumwhere else... he tells me that he had plans already... (since when do u have to make an appointment to spend time with ur bf??) and when i do see him.. hes on the computer or leaves me in his room while he runs errands.... help!?!?!??!?!?!
2006-12-01 10:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by jaylen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds like a loser. He probably realizes no other normal woman would tolerate his crap, so he's got no other option but to try to get you back. It's not that he realizes what he had-- it's that no other woman wants him.
2006-12-01 10:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I am not a friend of yours and if your friends are telling you to get back with him then they are not yours either but they must be his because You do not need a boyfriend like that Punk he is a player and he wants his Cake and eat it too. What I AM saying he wants you to be at his side when he goes out with his friends and have a good time and just maybe things might work out for him outside of you and Him but if not he has you as a back up you know what I am saying you can feel it. Do not get back with him and You find what you need someone that will be there for you and want to be with you only you. Do it your way
2006-12-01 18:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u answered ur own question hun if he was that bad why would u want 2 give him another chance. I think ur best bet is 2 find out what ur unhappy and take time 2 change that. try not caring what others think n concentrate on what makes u happy.
goood luck
2006-12-01 18:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you get pissed off at every little thing so you go to someone else and they see you as the same person your ex did and if they can deal with it then they'll stick with ya. If they can't see ya later. Maybe you shouldn't control his life. Maybe sit down and talk to him and tell him either pay more attention or you're never gonna talk to him again and follow through with it. Thanks and good luck. Call me if you want a real man. 320-309-51??
2006-12-01 18:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you, you hadn't had much. You better stay away from that man he don't want you, he wants to use you. What is wrong with you what more could he do to you, to make you see he doesn't give 2 cents about you. Tell your friends and him to ,. to go to hell. Let them take him, you better leave what call friends and that monster alone. You don't have friends you need to find you all new friends because sweetheart you AIN'T got no friends.
2006-12-01 18:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. I let him go. Well he came back and was ready to settle down. Long story short we are married for 10 years and have 4 beautiful kids.
2006-12-01 18:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by gettin it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without him. Move on. Do your thing, honey.
Everyone has these thoughts when they break up. The further you are from a breakup, you realize exactly how things really were.
2006-12-01 18:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't happy when you were with him and don't want to get back together with him than don't. It seems to me that your not important enough to cancel plans to spend time with you and he's not worth it.
2006-12-01 18:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. dont get back together with him!
r u kidding. from what your tellng me thats not sucha great relationship. i think you should talk to him and tell him all that u told me.. (us, like ur question).
seriously. move on, you could do so much better.
2006-12-01 18:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him because he wasn't meeting your needs. Unless you know that stuff has changed, why would you get back with him?
2006-12-01 18:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋