i keep getting complaints that it hurts as its too thick so how do you manage that
2006-12-07 07:25:17
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answer #1
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answered by arfa54321 5
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Women in a relationship care more about who you are and how you feel about them and how you express that, than how big your wanger is, and girth is more useful than length as a measurement.
I use to be obsessed about size, and this was because I just was not feeling safe in the relationship I was in and insecure in myself. It took a while to work out I had a big one, but asking women over chat channels about this tends to get a sarcastic and hostile response. Because I was avoiding other issues, I was not satisfied with that answer. Eventually when I resolved those issues dick size became unimportant anyway.
Your measurements are obviously big if you are measuring from above the penis. Probably average if you are measuring from underneath.
Whether size counts is up to the individual woman. From my experience a small minority of mature women are obsessed about size, and the depth of relationship was purely on a physical level. There would have been very little lost in never meeting those women.
In a realistic relationship with emotions, how big your dick is when you have sex is very low on the priority list unless it means you cannot perform sex.
Be careful with a big dick, some women may be scared of it, men have been known to unintentionally ram a womans cervix (which some women find incredibly painful, whereas others may find it pleasureable).
From my experience
* 1/2 get a bit of a thrill on the size
----------* 1/2 of these women found wanger size was really small in importance overall
----------* 1/2 of them were obsessed by wanger size
* 1/2 did not care about size at all
I only have had one lover that did not give birth and I had to be gentle otherwise I would risk pounding her cervix (which caused a lot of pain for her)
If you wanna be a porn star or continually have casual sex with many different partners, a big dick would be boneficial, however otherwise if you want true intimacy with a woman, then penis size is too small a thing to break up a relationship compared to emotional level things.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-07 17:43:02
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answered by bumbass2003 3
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Hello,
For me with a man size doesnt matter since im gay BUT I have plenty of straight girl friends and it differs. Some like their men to be big or between a certain size. Some arent fussy and look more into the inside of their man. His personality. You may find a man with a big dick has no personality, but will use his dick size to impress the ladies. Yet someone with a small dick maybe the sweetest man and really loving. He will know how to charm the ladies in other ways and will more than likely touch their hearts more deeply.
I think if a woman likes a guy with a big dick THATS FINE
If she doesnt mind THATS FINE TOO.
We all has our likes and dislikes the same way that guys like different kinds of women.
Its all about our tastes.
So i would disagree with her statement
2006-12-07 02:48:58
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answered by Mystic Magic 5
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On a serious note i only think size matters when it causes problem, eg too small to be able to 'perform' or too big that it's not enjoyable. I think most people are of 'average' size (between 5-8 inches) which contrary to popular belief, most people are happy with. Once again it comes down to bravado (from both men and women) and insecurities, we all seem to want to fit into the 'norm'. If small works for you that's good, same goes for bigger, as long as both people are enjoying the experience then ultimately no, size doesn't matter.
2006-12-07 09:50:21
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answered by Chill_Out 3
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This is a little riduculous and really freakin childish.
When you want to be with someone it doesn't freakin matter! You love them & you will find out sex is not the foremost thing in life. Enjoyable and wanted yes, but in REAL life when you really care about someone it DOESNT MATTER!
If its sex only your looking for post a size requirement first. Secondly, tell them how big your stretch is! Maybe Tera Patrick is just too loose?
2006-12-08 13:41:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I have been with both kinds of women and personally find it more enjoyable for the both of us and perform better when the lights are off the first time and we are just feeling around eachother.
When size plays into it is when the female usually has a gay friend that has a size fixation, then all of a sudden they are asking questions about size. Leave it out of the bedroom until you are comfortable together and things are better for longer.
2006-12-07 17:16:50
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answered by xj_99507 2
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It only matters in the extremes. If it's less than two inches hard, yes that matters. If it's more than about 8 inches, that's not good either. But within the normal range, 4.7" is just as good as 7.4" - when we say size REALLY doesn't matter, we mean within the range most men are worrying about, not the truly abnormal.
2006-12-01 14:31:11
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answered by Maple 7
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Pretty "cocky" aren't you.
Wonder if you'd have so much to say, if you were the one with a small dick>
Have a little empathy for those a little less fortunate.
Over the years, I found quality is much better than quantity, so you could be kidding yourself,that your size makes you a good lover.
I'd like to hear what the women youv'e had sex with have to say!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 19:35:27
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answered by animalwatch 3
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all women love dick! size matters, nothin worse than a 2 inch **** that u cant feel!!
2006-12-06 08:26:17
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answered by Anonymous
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size does matter. but not as if the bigger the better. but if its too small it isnt good and if it is too big that isnt good either.
2006-12-07 09:20:03
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answered by uhm_yeh 2
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For me it has to be Full grown plus an extra inch.
2006-12-05 03:22:19
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answered by Ollie 7
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