2006-12-01 10:30:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could ask him questions? You know how does that feel, do you like when I do this, what do you want me to do to you? Things like that. When he answers you then you could act really turned on by it or even tell him it turns me on when you tell me how you feel or what you are thinking. That is what I did with my husband and now he just does it on his own. If I think he isn't vocal enough then I just take the initiative and ask. Good luck.
2006-12-01 10:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start outside the bed and TELL him how much it means to you to know what hes thinking, his thoughts on things, etc. Then you do the same by opening up and being honest about a lot of things. Help him to be comfortable and tell him that the more he does that the more the relationship will open up and that special connection turns you on. You also share your thought and ideas on certain things to give him an idea of how to do it. A lot of men don't know how to open up even though they might want to. Then you can take it a step further and SHOW him how expressing his feelings and what he thinks in the bedroom can lead to good things and rich rewards.
2006-12-01 18:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same way you get him to express feelings outside of bed.
2006-12-01 18:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's an interesting question, are you asking about his feelings about sex? Or just expressing his feelings in general?
Part of the problem is men, (Being one myself), sometimes are brought up to not share their feelings. Which I think is wrong, because guys think that they are weak if they express their feelings. Just need to get the lines of communication open. If you can get him to talk, that would help alot. Communication is a VERY important part of any relationship.
2006-12-01 18:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel towards him or the subject that your talking about and then perhaps he may express his feelings. Or you could just ask him that you would like to know how he feels about what you have said.
2006-12-01 18:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel_Rabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have sex first, then tell him that when he is ready you would love to talk. BUT be careful as men hate this and you want it sincere... so let him know, then let him come to you when he is ready... face it... we could talk about our feelings all freaking day.
Guys need a warning.
Asking them to tell you their feelings is like them asking us to come go in front of a group of people in a bikini.
2006-12-01 18:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Girl With Gorilla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate when man express themselves in bed.
2006-12-01 18:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by catworkbefoul 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
By sitting on his face and pouring juice all in his mouth. I bet he will express his feelings then
2006-12-01 18:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by MeToo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just do what ever you need to do and ask him to express them
2006-12-01 19:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Keera P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a b***job until he begs you to stop, I guarantee he will be expressing his feelings.
2006-12-01 18:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋