I have many girlfreinds but im not shure if im ready, im just turned 13. Plus i don't know if i like them. There hot and all but please help.
2006-12-01 10:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by cpswazland 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
in middle skool, the d8ing game goes lik this: lik sum1, d8 that person, u both break ^, get hurt, & most of the time u guys wont b friends anymor. since ima chick, the best advice i can giv u is 2 tell the truth. if they ask u out, tell them "im scared 2 d8 & i dont want 2 get hurt. i lik was we hav & im afraid 2 lose that". im really close 2 ur age so if u hav any questions, feel free 2 email me. trust me, i really so know wat ur goin thru
2006-12-01 10:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by island_girl_031 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question if your ready chances are that you probably aren't. Just keep being sociable and kind, but go no further than that until if feels right for you to become a good "boyfriend". Your still only 13, believe me you have a entire life in front of you, don't create problems where there is none. Just be happy :)
2006-12-01 10:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by jennygirl0764 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try telling them your just not dating. Trust me! It is so much better to wait for someone right to come along then jump into a relationship with the first, second, or even 3rd person who asks you out! I've done this before, and I was in a pickle because AFTERWARDS I found out I didnt like this person as much as I thought. Crushes are cool, but just because you like somebody does not mean you HAVE to date them. If that is truly how you feel, really DO what you say you mean, that way you wont get in a mess, and..if someone great should come along, I know you will be proud of yourself for sticking throught with it . Adults usually do this more but for good reasons Im sure. Try going on dates instead of just making the commitment to be a boyfriend. Make sure you really are interested in this gal before pursuing more with them. Get to know them and respect them and make sure they respect you. No one likes their heart broken...or in other words dumped! lol
This is what Im doing right now in highschool, and it has saved me from so many messes!! I myself am waiting for God to bring me that one, even if Im not getting married soon, there is a process before that of course, and POSSIBLY you might not want to hear this, but God made love, realtionships between 2 people, and I PROMISE you, no matter what age you are, he makes the best ones. Love is much more filling and exciting than a few quick realtionships! You`ll find this as you get older, not saying your small, but we still have a lot ahead of us. There is nothing boring in a relationship with God! It opens your eyes to even more opportunities, and will make things clear for you! I hope I didnt get too deep on you, and I hope you find some clarity in this sitaution! (these things can be so nerve racking!)
If your afraid to tell the person your true feelings, or are uncomfortable, dont feel like you really have to! Go with this plan if it feels best!
The Lord bless you, and have an awsome christmas! Excited?
2006-12-01 10:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Miss PIff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think that you are too young to have a girlfriend. Any serious relationship you start now will not last. Second, the fact that you are not sure if you are ready, confirms that you are not ready.
2006-12-02 15:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by gate_maker06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to enter into a relationship. Keep them as friends instead and wait a little longer. You need to stay focused on your school work and other activities.
2006-12-01 10:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im 13 too just concentrate on school and your studies and
if you think you can choose wat one you like the most and dump the others they'll get over it so just worry about school and choose the 1 you like the most and dump the rest. (tell them you still want to be friends but dont sound desprit!)
youll be fine ive had to do that once or twice and they got over it and now we are good friends.
2006-12-01 10:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT
YOU ARE ONLY 13
2006-12-01 10:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A just cheat on all of them or are you gay and dont like girls
2006-12-01 10:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gilbert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur decision whether u think ur ready or not... dont let others opinion change what u think is right...
2006-12-01 10:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by SweetiePie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear pink sneakers now!! lol
2006-12-01 10:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋