i like girls but i can't stop looking at boys
2006-12-01 10:18:06 · 18 answers · asked by dogg77776 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ur bisexual not gay.....omg y oh y r all the hot guys turning gay??? ok ya i dont know what u look like but anyways
2006-12-01 11:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to be a boy who is very emotionally close to girls, but at the same time to be physically attracted to boys. These aren't mutually exclusive feelings.
Ask yourself if your heart beats a little faster if the cool guy at the gym takes off his shirt, or if you find yourself mysteriously drawn to the 'Men's Fitness' magazine at the supermarket, and if so, then you're probably gay. Whether or not you're 'Bi' is a nuance that you have to work out through experience.
There is a time, during your pre-teens when you are just becoming sexually aware, when you begin to realize you might be gay. There is nothing you can do to change the course of it, though. Just accept it, and surround yourself with supportive people.
2006-12-01 18:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Todd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAH no man your not gay, it depends, when you look at the dude, do you have sexual fantasies about him? do you want to kiss the dude? if you think that **** is sick, then your not gay man. It depends on the seuxal attraction, its cool if you are physically attracted to them, that dont mean your gay. if you find a romantic connection with the dude, then you are. I am 17, i have been admiring the looks of men for a long time, but you see i am never romantically or sexually attracted to them, i still find many men physically attractive. I have always been falling in lvoe with girls my whole life. i dont know man, time will find out, when you look at a guy, do you want to have sed with him, if you dont and think its ****** nasty, man you aint gay. Just chil lthe **** out. if you like 8 then you may have a great chance of become homosexual, man dont worry. if yo udont wanna be gay then you wont, if yo uwant to be then you will. there shouldnt be a sexual label, i swear every straight man looks at other straight men, its ******* nature, straight men dont have same sex feelings , thats what makes them straight. but straight men look and admire other men's looks. DUde chill out. My step dad constantly makes remarks on how some men look handsom, the dude is married to my mom. the ***** aint gay. shut the **** up. your not ******* gay, but if you wanna be be my ******* guest. peace out.
2006-12-01 21:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read of a study that said that most people have thoughts of the same sex.an attraction. sexual thoughts sometimes. its normal to admire other people of the same sex. there body's, there spirit, there manner.I admire people of the same sex and am not gay.I may like there looks. there manner of being.I don't differentiate my feelings or thoughts to accommodate local customs as to if I am gay or bi or straight. I am just me and if I like someone I don't even think about if I am doing it in a manner that others may not like. or disagree with. just be yourself. but being gay is I believe is going down a much rougher road then being straight.Its best in my opinion to be straight. It seems to me to be that you can choose what way you wont to go.Good Luck
2006-12-01 18:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't become gay, you either are or you are not.
If you are looking at boys, it depends on what you are thinking about. If you are looking at their clothes and maybe want to get something similar because you think it looks good, then you are probably not gay. If you are looking at their clothes and maybe want to see them not wearing any, then you are probably gay.
2006-12-01 19:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have a staring problem, if your gay your born gay, you would have had an attraction to men since birth. So if you like girls your not gay,
2006-12-01 18:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by msim225 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could be bi, but dont be ashamed of it. when you become honest with yourself then you can come to terms with it, they better that you will feel. Just remember, no one but you lives your life and soon everyone will come to terms with it. nothing is wrong with being gay, straight or bi... dont let anyones small mindedness tell you otherwise.
2006-12-01 18:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by kellieghr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you at the very least swings both ways..
Congratulations , you're bi!
Now off you go to play doctor!
2006-12-02 04:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by MapDark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to dress like a woman so u will not feel shy on looking them and they will look u back
2006-12-01 18:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by happy chinkoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,sometimes you have to compare i look at guys all the time (but i am a girl)
(a straight girl)
2006-12-01 19:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sybil G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋