She is back and more annoying than ever!!!!HELP????

Question

A while back I wrote about a friend who knew things about me and was annoying the hec out of me. So now it is worse. I wish I wouldn't have told her some things because now I don't trust her. She is always fishing for information. If I am with someone, she will question the hec out of me trying to find out. Why does she need to know who I am with. It is like I can't have any other friends. I think she is a little unstable and I was dumb to confide in her in my time of need. How can I end the friendship without her going psyco on me and telling everyone my buisness. There is two things I told her that can ruin my relationship with another person but she has never met him. I am trying to distance myself without getting burned and I don't know what to do.

Answer 1

When she asks you questions that are none of her business just tell her you don't wish to discuss your personal business with outsiders. Don't even try to be a casual friend to her. Make a clean break. Tell her that she needs to spend her time wisely by taking care of her own problems. Sometimes handling our own business and our own problems are enough with out busy bodies trying to stick their nose where it does not belong. I know that i have enough just to deal with my business and wish others would have enough sense to do the same Though it is best not to be rude if you have to don't let it bother you. Let her know that you do not have time for her. She would not hesitate to do this to you if you were an aggravation to her. Sometimes you have to growl just to let others know to back off right away! It is really bad when you don't feel good or others think you are weak and they try to jump you. Human beings can be very selfish and cruel-and all the while they lie and claim to be so good. Dump her just like you would your garbage. I hate to be so cold about it but after all it is a matter of survial.

Answer 2

Look, You just have to be honest with this person. As hard as that may seem, you just have to. Sit her down and tell her if she really wants a friendship with you, then there needs to be boundaries, and tell her what those are. And if she doesn't want to abide by the rules then show her the door and tell her to never speak with you again unless she is willing to abide by your set boundaries. And if you told her things that might ruin your relationship with other people, (if she does stoop that low as to tell them) then maybe those relationships with those other people shouldn't be. You see what I'm saying?

Answer 3

Maybe you should give her one more shot but before you do tell her to please stop getting into your business and you can just tell her nicely. Then if she doesn't stop then just say look i tried to tell you to stay out of my business and you won't so i don't want to be your friend. That's what you should say.

Answer 4

i feel bad for you....tough situation....if you tell her how you really feel she could bear all your secret or you have to fake a realationship with this person....i would try to distance myself from her slowly....stop confinding in her and dont tell her anything else....maybe if you be nosey in her business she will stop being like that to you

Answer 5

you can tell her that you dont want to be her friend any more or you can just text her on your phone or you can also that you are being annoying and if she wants to get into yours than get into hers and say its none of her buiesness?

Answer 6

if its that bad then tell her that your parents don't want you to hang out with her anymore. or you can just completely ignore her. if all else fails, then just tell her to top and go away.

Answer 7

you can trick her into telling you dirt or tell her a bunch of lies and see hong long she can keep a secret