Women who are perfectly capable and are loving individuals find it hard to conceive a child, but women who are not deserving who care nothing about their children are having babies like here and there like its nothing. Am I just being bitter because I had a miscarriage but a girl I know is doing nothing but using her child to get what she want from men and cares nothing for her child?
2006-12-01 09:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by Kaliyah's here! 4-30-08 7lb 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am pregnant now....5weeks i was just saying for those who think i just cant have kids!
2006-12-01 09:43:26 · update #1
Not all women are like that so please do not generalize i know you're sad but getting upset at women who can is not gonna fix your situation. God has plans for everyone maybe he made you that way so u could adopt a needy child who really needs you. Just like rich women can not conceive but the adopt helpless children and give them lives they only dreamnt about good luck and i'm sorry for what you must be going through!
2006-12-01 09:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wonder the same thing my ex friend has been pregnant 4 times she is now only 18 and 3 of the 4 she had an abortion and the 4th resulted in a miscariage due to the previous abortions and i have a cousin who has been trying to concieve for 5 years now and she is very much in love with her husband they own a home and she is great with her neices and nephews she really wants a child i don't think you are being bitter at all i think that you actually open your eyes and see all the messed up people instead f closing your eyes and hoping for the best like a lot of women d o
2006-12-01 17:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not true of all women. Maybe you can try looking at pregnancy (or difficulty getting pregnant) as another of life's test and trials to be overcome by growing as a person. Maybe you were meant to adopt an unwanted child, and share your love with him or her...imagine how rewarding that would be. Sure, having your own biological children is an amazing feeling, but you could also find magic and blessing in reaching out to a child who has no family.
Women who you believe care nothing for their children have their own hurdles to jump. Pray for them AND for their children...that they will find love and come to discover the purpose for THEIR lives.
God bless.
PS - ONE miscarriage does not mean you can't have children. Many women have miscarriages, and go on to have LOTS of children. Keep your chin up and keep trying! :-)
2006-12-01 17:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely doesn't seem fare. The more a woman think about what another person is doing, the more crazy you get.
I wouldn't worry about one miscarriage, unless you can't conceive again. Most women miscarry at least once. I was worried when I miscarried, then looked at the statistics.
It seems to me the woman that is using her child, won't get the right man either. Her priorities are definitely in the wrong place.
Direct your bitterness, anger and frustration in a good direction. The less stressed you are, the better chance to conceive.
Good luck ! I hope I answered your question right.
2006-12-01 17:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister and her husband had a son Preston Michael Hawks that was born May 26, 2003. He died 4 days later because of a heart defect. It was so very hard on the whole family, especially my sis and her husband. Even though she now has a healthy son, she still finds it hard to understand why it works the way you described. There is no answer to why its like that, you just have to do your best to not let it bother you. Congrats on your pregnancy and good luck honey. God Bless!
2006-12-01 17:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be annoyed with this girl whether you had a miscarriage or not. I find it hard to understand why those deserving of motherhood are denied the chance, and those who just sleep around without caring about their bodies seem to get pregnant and have more children than should be allowed.
It's sad, but that is the way of the world.
I'm so sorry about your loss *HUGS*
2006-12-01 17:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Although I can't say I feel that way from experience(I have two boys whom are loved very much), I completely agree. It sickens and saddens me when I see a woman that has 6 kids by 6 different men (usually an addict of some kind), the kids are neglected and abused and then there's this poor couple that completely deserve the baby of their dreams and are unable.
2006-12-01 18:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I agree with you, but that is the way life is. There is nothing we can do to stop it. Good Luck with your childbearing and try to help someone really love their child if you can.
2006-12-01 17:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by RearFace@18mo. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are talking about fortunetly i didnt have a problem getting pregnaunt but i did now of some one who ended with 8 kids before she finally got fixed but any way she did not deserve any of those kids she had she beat them and finally got taken away with the help of c.p.s.
2006-12-01 17:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by blackhairedbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are a bit on the bitter side... and our personalities have nothing to do with our reproductive system..sad isnt it.. :o(
2006-12-01 17:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋