My guy has sex with me to satisfy me but he cant orgasm thru intercourse himself.He doesnt say he is gay and lives a straght life .But he I know looks at gay porn on the net .Does this mean he is gay?And can he stay with me and love me thru our lives?I have asked and he says no that he is not gay! But he reads gay magazine stuff in a sex mag but it has woman too!
2006-12-01 09:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Mary your man might be bisexual and he's capable of being sexually compatible with you if he is. That means he likes guys and girls.
2006-12-01 09:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he has more than a simple interest in gay porn. It is highly possible he is in denial of who he is and doesn't understand it himself yet. He most likely is at least bisexual. I know this because I was in the same place he is. I was once married, and in denial. Looking at porn and couldn't orgasm with my wife. It took me 5 years with her to realize I was wrong, and I was gay. As I said this does not mean he is gay, but I would say he is bisexual at least. Give him time and space. Don't pressure him at this point. If he is gay, learn to accept that and give him his frredom to be happy in life. If he is bisexual try to help him enjoy his world with you. Be patient. And good luck
2006-12-01 17:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Your BF has unresolved issues about his sexuality. If you hang with him over the long term and he doesn't receive help, you're in for alot of heartaches. If you truly care about this boy, urge him to seek out a counselor who can help him with his sexuality issues, then let it take its course. If he loves you, he will continue to love you, but in a different way. Please don't make the mistake of thinking you can change him, you can't and he won't. Remember, your first job is to take care of you, then help him.
Good Luck!
2006-12-01 17:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by TurtleBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with him. You'll end up having children and 20 years down the road, he'll finally come to terms with his sexuality and realize he ruined your life and his.
2006-12-01 18:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is bisexual... and that is a struggle. My best male friend is bi, and he still struggles with acceptance. He accepts himself... but is terrified that others won't. Some straight people can be very cruel based on another's non-hetero orientation.
2006-12-01 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's Gay.
2006-12-01 17:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋