my friend has been dating this guy for two years. While they were still going out he cheated onher with 9 girls maybe more and two of the girls he got babies by. she be iving him money and everything and he pulled a gun on her. is she stupid?
2006-12-01 09:08:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, she's trapped. She is a victim. I'd usually say try and support her out of it, but if he's 'drawing a gun' that's really scary.... if you care for your friend, you need to convince her that things are bad and you will help her get away from that guy, to somewhere safe ... I would even call the police for advice... it is getting out of hand
2006-12-01 09:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by mars 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my! Your friend is in danger if she keeps dating this guy. Your friend isn't stupid, she is just really attached. Maybe she had relationship problems when she was younger. If she continues to date him, she will continue to get hurt emotionally and maybe physically. As a friend, you should really try and tell her the truth even if she doesn't want to hear it. As her friend, she will understand that you're trying to protect her and care for her. She may go into denial since she 'loves' him so much but it's worth a try.
2006-12-01 09:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by carol. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have a pretty low self esteem. Why else would she keep dating someone that is lower than gum on the bottom of her shoe? 9 affairs and 2 babies while they were dating? She shouldn't give him the time of day.
2006-12-01 09:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by sloop_sailor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your friend is really stupid and if i were you i would let her know that she's acting really stupid because in the future you don't he could pull a gun out to her and this time he can't actually kill her.
2006-12-01 09:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Huneybee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur acquaintances are dorks u men are appearing like freakin 5th graders i propose which you tell ur pals to enhance up and end their little cleansing soap opera they are spazing out over something so ridiculouss yet whilst u did tell the lady ( i'm no longer sayin that u did) that fluctuate right into a foul decision. i asked to head faraway from an anoying baby that fluctuate into distracting me and that i've got been given moved, no ones emotions have been harm and each thing exchange into cool (the lady exchange into my chum too) get new acquaintances
2016-10-04 14:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by sather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes she is stupid. i mean if a guy cheated on me 9 or more times, 2 of which had a baby fron him, i would drop his @$$ to the curb faster than light travels ok. his @$$ would be on the ground crying. i'm kind of the same way though. but he just didn't pul a gun on me. my ex-boyfriend cheated on me so many times. finally i just said FhUfClK him if he is going to keep doing this **** to me.
2006-12-01 09:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by jack_attack0322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You're stupid for having weirdos for friends. Get rid of the dumb ***** and find some friends who don't constantly seek attention to replace the missing brains!
2006-12-01 09:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she needds to dump him he obviosly doesn't care about her if he is pulling agun on her and cheating on here nine times . She is getting the short end of the stick in this realation ship infact she in fact she is getting no end. What i want to know is why thaey havn't broken up earlier
2006-12-01 09:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by anisah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea she needs help she has low self esteem to think he is good or all she can get.. she is sadly misguided and he is a f- ker ain't he? she is stuck sometimes in addictions the sickness makes the other half ill too so in her case he has a hold on her makes her feel she cant get no one else. he gets away with it as he has control of her manipulator. she is in need of checking herself now professionally with a person who should talk to her.. she obliviously is stuck in her low self esteem .. talk to her save her now.there must be free counselors at school
2006-12-01 09:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! If the cheating didn't get her to give him up the gun should have!
2006-12-01 09:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Tina S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋