Ok, know who it is? Got their image in your mind? Ok now imagine the opportunity to kiss them or sleep with them with about 99.9% chance of no one ever finding out. You are married /in a long term relationship/engaged. Do you do it?
I think about how much I love my guy and there's no way I would ever do it. I just wouldn't. Not even a kiss.
For those who said they would do it, (or those who thought they would but say they wouldn't), now think about your significant other had done it. Its a kicker, aint it?
I don't get why cheaters cheat, why they ask to come back, and why people take them back. That's a guaranteed deal breaker in my book. Don't you think?
2006-12-01 08:59:55 · 17 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Celebrities don't count here, people.
2006-12-01 09:05:45 · update #1
I totally agree, I would never, ever, EVER cheat on my man. I am madly in love with him, Besides, I've been cheated on by my EX-husband, it's a horrible feeling.
2006-12-01 09:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I personally would never cheat either. Cheat is just really rude and just shows that you can't handle having a REAL relationship. If I found out that the guy I was dating (an example tho-I'm not seeing anybody at the moment.) had slept and/or kissed another girl then I would NOT take them back.
Cheaters are like moochers sometimes-you give them stuff (your trust, love, encouragement, time, ect) and they don't give you anything back (such as what you gave them.) The only thing they seem to give you is pain.
People take them back b/c they aren't thinking that it could happen again or they're just too weak to say, "You know what, you've cheated on me before and I don't know if I can really trust you to be honest with me." There's a such thing as being forgiving and just being plain clueless in my book. 'Just my view though.
2006-12-01 09:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't cheat. I was married to a cheater, and it's like a knife to the heart. If I was so tempted to cheat, I would leave FIRST. I would hope my husband would leave me before he slept with another woman. It's funny, I couldn't think of one single person I'd want to cheat on my husband with! I have a really great man....I don't need another!
2006-12-01 10:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%. I don't understand why cheaters cheat either. Sure they come up with all kinds of reasons why they cheated and try their damndest to justify it but what they fail to realize is that they're only making a bunch of excuses to avoid dealing with their problems in the marriage instead of facing it head on. I think about my husband, the marriage vows we gave to each other and I could not and would not even consider putting him in that kind of pain and distrust.
2006-12-01 09:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by jdhs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation. I had the opportunity. Never cheated. Couldn't live with myself to shatter someone's trust and love that way.
Eventually I broke up with my girlfriend, because I didn't have the same level of feelings she did. But I never cheated her.
So, if there IS that one person you would cheat with, and your feeling tempted in your mind to do it, you are probably with the wrong person.
Lesson learned...
2006-12-01 09:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u go and think of someone else while u are in a relationship then its not worth your time to make it last meaning u cant just be with one person.. Its not healthy at all to do something like that
2006-12-01 09:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Patrick Dempsey, my favorite, but NOT even him. Aren't we made up of other things besides our sexuality?
2006-12-01 09:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stupid!!! Is that a question or a statement? If your married you shouldn't even think about cheating.
2006-12-01 09:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Both the wife and I have a "celebrity clause". IF given the chance, we can do whatever we want with the celebrity.
2006-12-01 09:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
ev 1 makes mistakes
2006-12-01 09:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by bhbghgjbvmnbncvb 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋