2006-12-01 08:58:58 · 21 answers · asked by BR 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
don't do that
you will kill yourself
2006-12-01 09:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
No type of abortion is safe! What are you thinking? First off, if you don't want the baby then why would you open your legs and take the chance of getting pregnant? Second, now that the deed is done and you are pregnant, why not consider putting the baby up for adoption? There are so many people in the world that would love to have a child and can't. They would give that baby the best life ever.
Did you know... (from babycenter.com)
At three months of pregnancy, your baby is about 2 inches long. His fingers and toes have separated and he has begun swallowing and kicking. The basic structures of all his organs are in place and beginning to function.
Thats a life! No matter how small it is, its a life!
I really hope you think before you go through with something. You are going to have to live with your choice for the rest of your life.
2006-12-01 09:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by motherofone 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
3.5 is surgical procedure.
Any person who waits until they are 3.5 months along is greatly irresponsible.
However, the fetus is developed enough to have the surgical. It is painless, but with cramps and some bleeding for the next few days after abortion, and can only take up to 30 mins, if not less to do the procedure.
I am not against abortion. However, I am against those who wait until they are further into their pregnancy where babies have been born (5 to 6 months) and lived.
In Los Angeles, the cut off is 24 weeks (6 months). My fiance was born at 6 months pre-mature.... That is why I am against 24 week abortions.
I say, 4-8 weeks should the limit at 12 weeks pushing the limit.
2006-12-01 09:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Safe for whom you or the life you are about to take sorry but i have no answer to that. I think that you should consider adoption many people want children and they can't have them and they really are good people and they have new types of adoption now you can choose the parents that your baby will go to. Please i don't know you but i am begging you do not kill the most precious thing in the world a child you will regret it maybe not right away but you will. I know someone who hears babies everywhere she goes after she had an abortion consider what you are doing befor you do this please do not kill an innocent child that cannot defend itself. By the way a safe abortion is an oxymoron.
2006-12-01 09:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as a "safe abortion." There are many side-effects that can harm you severly. How about if you just have the baby and put it up for adoption? That would be what I would do! One of my best friends is adopted, and I don't know what I would do without her!!! I'm so glad her mom chose not to abort her. But again, abortion is NOT safe....at all.
2006-12-01 16:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is WRONG!!! if you think that you are old enough to have sex then you should be able to take on the responsible of a baby. pleas don't get an abortion! if you don't want the baby you can always adopt it out. give the baby a chance, don't be selfish!
2006-12-01 10:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no safe way of abortion, it is both painful to the mother and to the fetus. Since it is already developing they'll have to either do it vaginally or kinda like a c-section. The baby is actually burned alive with a chemical they release inside of your uterus. In studies it is actually proven the fetus tries to save it self by moving far away from the needle as possible. I'd think of other ways to free yourself from mother hood, maybe consider adoption, there are lots of couples who cant have children, and here you are killing one. Not to be persecuting, but don't have sex if you cant deal with the consequences.
2006-12-01 09:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by gabagabahey_u 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my friend had an abortion and she was over 4 months, the only thing is they charged her about $1500
it was a two day procedure, the first day they inserted this stuff into her vagina to make her cervix dilate, the second day they removed the baby. dont know how safe it is, i know she is trying to get pregnant and cant, and thinks its maybe from having an abortion but nothign for sure, dont let anyone judge you...whatever you decide to keep it, abort it, adoption it is your decision
2006-12-01 09:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a good abortion clinic or doctor. At almost 4 mo. You might have to be given medicine to induce labor. My niece was not able to have a regular abortion at this time because you have to watch out for excessive bleeding.
2006-12-01 09:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Carolann V 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please hunny don't abort the baby please cary the baby out to term and give the baby up for adoption. If you are mature enough to have sex than you should be mature enough to have to deal with the responsibility's that sex can bring. Please don't harm the baby at that far along the baby is moving it has a heart beat it is almost 5 inches long, at that far along in your pregnancy how can you think about doing that . At that far along you can already determine the sex of the baby. Please don't be selfish , do it for your child there are so many people out there that would give anything for a little one please give it up for adoption , you will never forgive yourself if you do this to this Innocent little one that just wants a chance for life. I will pray for you.
2006-12-01 09:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok this is a free country people so go ahead and post all your anti abortion comments, but do you think we can be a tad more careful about throwing the word "retard" around?? to me, that is the most offensive part of this thread. sheesh. People may have children with disabilities here...
2006-12-01 09:07:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mina222 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋