I'm 18, in high school, kind of slowly integrating myself (at least I hope) into one of the more popular groups in school, (which is basically most everybody since our school is so small. So I got a facebook (its like myspace) and one of them helped me get it set up and they seemed so happy and nice that I got one. But then I went and added a lot of people, and got denied by one popular person, and was paranoid they hated me so I deleted it. I was worried they thought I was arrogant. Now they seem more distant, less kind, though I might tend to look for this more because I'm paranoid about it. Do you think they're mad at me?
2006-12-01 08:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Should I just give up on being their friend?
2006-12-01 08:57:36 · update #1
Why would you want to be friends with anyone who does not want to be friends with you?
2006-12-01 09:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I hate to say this most popular groups are just a bunch of obnouscious, hipocrites, who only think of themselves and no one else. WHat if they are mad at you so what get some other friends. Your popular group are just over raided no good wimps . So find good friends and don't worry better alone than in that group.
2006-12-01 17:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear, give it up. That is not why you go to school in the first place. Imagine all the time you have wasted on people when you are there to learn. Good grief!
2006-12-01 17:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! They are wondering if you think they came across too strong. They want you to be their friend but theyre worried that you won't like them because someone doesn't want to add you. YOu are the popular one!
2006-12-01 17:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nick F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if she denied u, that obviously say enough about yall friendship
2006-12-01 17:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, friends aren't forced, if they are mad at you, nothing lost, nothing gained, except you got to see there true colors
2006-12-01 17:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sick of myspace?
check out http://friendfinder.com/go/g816227
2006-12-02 17:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by mps810 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ddont be ther frend and find a tru 1.
2006-12-01 17:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋