ok so just two days ago my friend andy died and some of my friends are having trouble with his death. also one of my friends moms has acncer and hes even more upset. what should i do to help him??
2006-12-01 08:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk with them about the loss and their feelings as well as yours. Communication is great therapy and although you may all have tears together they will be healthy and hopefully happy ones. Discuss the good times that you shared with your friend and perhaps all you go to visit the gravesite in order to try and get some closure. Your friend who's mom has cancer let him know how sorry you are and that you hope that they will be able to treat her cancer and she go into remission. And let him know that you are a friend and as such he can call you anytime if he ever just wants to talk or needs someone to listen to him vent. You sound like a true friend to want to help your buddies like this. Good luck.
2006-12-01 08:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of u get into a group, talk and cry it out. This is very healthy. Talking about a death and facing reality wil help u all overcome this obsticle. It really does. Dont hold it in.
2006-12-01 09:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good listener and just be there for them. Time will help heal.They don't have to forget them , they will have to move on.
2006-12-01 08:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there and listen and let them cry
2006-12-01 08:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋