She was pregnant from another man, he married her so her family would talk to her. She never worked and he spent well over 2,000 dollars towards things for her. She is white trash and likes to pretend she is rich. She left him, and is pregnant again by some guy. She ruined his life.
2006-12-01 08:42:20 · 26 answers · asked by gabagabahey_u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all for helping me, they do not have children together. I am so glad. They are at the 6 months wait of their divorce and my fiance and I consider her as the ex. We are moving from the house she used to live in with him, I know things will get better.
2006-12-01 08:56:57 · update #1
it's not good to stress over things of the sort your in an uproar about it's you and him now you indicated there's not real ties in their past except marriage . if you leave door open something is all ways going to come in. feel me?
2006-12-01 08:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by kcyeahthat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know if this will work for you, but my second wife found it lots of fun. When going through an old photo album of mine, she found a picture of the ex. When I told her it was the ex, she asked for it. I thought it was a little strange at the time, but having gotten rid of all the other pictures of her, I said sure.
Well, she had copies made. (Photocopies, this was before the time of the PC, back in the early 80's.) Then she proceeded to maim, mangle, and destroy the copies in different ways. She threw our darts at one, used a box knife on another, used one to start the grill, put one in the driveway and put the front tire of the car on it and turned the steering wheel until it was about gone, and my favorite was she would tape them to her running shoes. Face down.
I don't think it was odd, she just really hated someone she never met. After about three months she stopped doing it, and nothing was ever said the matter again, so I guess for her it worked.
2006-12-01 16:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by rifleman01@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hate on her, just congadulate her, so she knows that she has no power over you. If you pretend to be her friend then there is no challenge for her to make you jealous. she knows just how you feel that is why she does what she does. anywho let it encourage you and motivate you to better yourself more thean her. do all the things that she lacks. It is never too late to better yourself in any area's. Hints: better educate yourself in school, find a better paying job, watch your weight by watching what you eat and working out takes the stress and tension some. DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! Succeed in the areas of your relationship with your fiance that he has mentioned she lacks or he hated about her. Fight hate with love and success and you come out on top!
2006-12-01 17:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HEAR YA!!!!!!!!!!!!! My husband's ex wife, Lynette, is the biggest white trash sl.ut around. She thinks she's rich too, but asks my husband to pay her school tuition and more alimony, after we were done. She stole about 80 grand from him and looks like a wet dog. She calls him all the time, because she wants to get back together. I know she's just jealous, because I'm 25 years younger than her and she had to get redone before my husband would take her in public, but not me!!! I'm just glad that I control her emotions and she can't live without being miserable, all because of me. She called me one day and told me I was the biggest ****** she had ever met, but only because I was nice enough to give her a month more alimony than we were supposed too. Nice of her isn't it?? Then she called me and told me she still loves my husband. I laughed about that one for months, still am laughing in fact. Just keep your head up and remember that you are better than her. People say that no one is better than anyone, but you and I are better than our husband's exes!! Should I put her picture (glamour shot) on uglypeople.com?? She is sick.
2006-12-01 16:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move away from the place where you commonly live, or find an inner strength to be secure that your marriage will not fail and she will not cause you to stress over what once was, but no longer is. Just be a better wife to him and a better person in general. Distance yourself from anything that involves her. And pray.... asking for help to let go of the hate that you feel her. It has worked for me!
2006-12-01 16:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by mitzireeves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always hate her but she may always be part of your life since your ex-married her.... Not much you can do really... Although telling your ex about your feelings may (or may not) prevent you having to run into her.... It would be nice to talk to the Ex to see how he feels about the whole situation....
It's her life.... Just live your own life.... But don't try and get between her and your ex.... This could be more harmful if you plan to be with him for a long time....
2006-12-01 16:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow the past to cloud your thinking. She was a part of his life but he has closed the chapter of that past life. You would be wise to do the same as how she acts or pretends to be has nothing to do with you and will only create problems for you and your fiance if you allow them to fester up inside of you. Tell your man about your feelings and then let it rest.
2006-12-01 16:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I hate my mans ex too but if there is no reason for your fiancee to speak to her then its the saying: "Out of sight, out of mind". If they have no children or ties then you shouldnt have to think about her. If shes trailer trash then shes not even worth thinking about and by hating her it means you care in some way and are paying attention to her. As much as you "hate" her you just have to forget that she means nothing to you or your fiancee. You could always put a hit out on her too though but I'm only kidding!
2006-12-01 16:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by SR A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The child she had while they were married - is he considered the father? I know he is not biologically, but is he "Daddy?" If so, sorry, but she will be in your life as long as she has custody of their daughter. There will always be a connection. Either way, maybe you should just pity her instead of hating her. She sure doesn't want your pity, and it will help you get past your feelings toward her.
2006-12-01 16:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even worried about her existence. You and your fiance should be focusing on your lives together. She is out of the picture, right? Stop keeping her apart of your lives by talking her up. Move on and forget about it. Whats done is done, you can't change it so move on.
2006-12-01 16:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋