I have noticed that there are always few who treat me unprofessionally and then I get treated like that by every one. This really has stagnated my career. I now strongly believe that my appearance and ability to bombard words is the area I need to be stong. Otherwise some one will be all over me with their superior soft skills. I am average in appearance and talking but quite good in technical skills. I tried hard to sharpen my softskills but I find that still I am in the same quagmire. Any tip that I can focus on now?
2006-12-01 08:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by Govind 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, the word bombard suggest that you need a softer yet force-full approach. Some people are natural salesmen, some are not. Subtlety is key. Things have a flow and you need to respect that.
That said, much like in high school or prison, you need to make a strong good first impression as that then sets the tone.It's very hard if not impossible to change peoples first impressions of you in a work situation. Try the approach of mirroring those in rank ahead of you (but not in a kiss up kind of way) and also check your appearance again. If you are female, try to check out the what not to wear books/show to guide you.
Basically, you need to project confidence with a little humor/graciousness thrown in for good measure.Don't worry - most people have to do a bit of work in these areas.
2006-12-01 08:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appearance is the best tip for being treated professionally when making early impressions. People will assume that you are there to work and have ambitions to move up if they see you dressed professionally as the management and top management dress. The will assume that you know what you are doing and possibly fear you. Being on time, being in your work area, and not goofing off will also make good impressions. Tattoos, piercings, casual wear will give the impression you are not there to work. Other workers will assume you're just there for a paycheck, and don't care about working hard and moving up.
2006-12-01 16:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what type of work you do, but change the type of clothing you wear. Pay attention to what the people above you are wearing and try to dress similar. If you show up in jeans and a t-shirt and everyone else is wearing dockers and a polo, you will stick out. Second is language, speak only professionally no swearing, street language like Hi-ya instead of It's nice to meet you. If someone speaks to you unprofessionally, stop what you are doing, look at them, and reply in your best professional tone to their question. You can't get respect if you act like you are just off the street. If necessary, try a speech class to give you more confidence that you can talk to people.
2006-12-01 16:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and prove you're trustworthy. No one can ever be proven a true professional but by their acts. Have patience and keep working at it. Be courteous but strong and smile. If you appear to be assured of things then others will get that impression too.
2006-12-01 16:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is always best when you start a new job or situation, to sit back and observe others. Always dress and act professionally. As you watch others around you you will learn who you can be candid with and who not to. don't talk about your personal life or religious, political beliefs.
The best thing is to be polite but keep to your self.
2006-12-01 16:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by cajohnson667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is earned. So prove yourself first.
2006-12-01 16:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by neyoneyon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋