Does anyone think that it is okay for their spouse to communicate with co-workers outside of work. email,?

Question

cell-phones, myspace. please tell me what do you think?

Answer 1

I dont think it's ok but what can you do?All you can do is pray for your husband. Read "Power of a praying Wife" by stormie omartian. It helped me lots and prayer brought lots of peace in my heart. God is good.

Answer 2

I had a male co-worker friend at work. We don't speak after work nor go out to lunch during work and nor do we have break together at work anymore. I have known him for 7 years and really enjoyed his friendship and company at work until someone told his wife which really is not a problem but she felt that we were having an affair. I never met my co-worker friend after work because I thought it was disrespecting his wife because she did not know me.

We now just see each other at work and say "Hello". I really miss our friendship at work which is all it was.

I have had male friendships from work before but once they reached the point where I felt the male co-worker wanted more than friendship then I ended the friendship especially if they were married.

Hopefully, your husband will do the same and end any friendship that he feels is overstepping the line whether it be by him or her.

Best of luck.

Answer 3

That depends on lots of things. The people in my department are very close and we take little day trips together on Saturdays once or twice a year, we go to each others houses for showers and parties, funerals, etc, and we are both male and female coworkers. We ask about each others spouses and kids and family problems, we share recipes, we don't just work together, we are friends. My husband understands, but sometimes he feel a little left out because he is now at home on disability and doesn't have those work relationships.

Answer 4

Sure depending on how "personal" the communication gets, the sex of the other person,etc. I have a lot of friends that I made at my previous job and still keep in contact w/ them. Now, if the other person is the opposite sex and this makes you uncomfortable then you should discuss the issue w/ your spouse, but I don't think you have too much to worry about...after all, if you did, you'd never know there was talk going on outside of the office.

Answer 5

Your coworkers comments in all hazard come from a pretend experience of attempting to help. they might think of they are offering solid suggestion on your wellbeing yet going approximately it the incorrect way. some each and every physique is merely skinny. until eventually a doctor tells you which you're able to benefit weight than you shouldn't problem. those comments are irrelevant yet shrouded in solid intentions perchance so in case you are able to talk that it offends you in a modern way then which would be superb.

Answer 6

Of course, why wouldn't it be ok? If you're overly concerned about fidelity within the marriage, you can create your own self-fulfilling prophecy. Loosen up. so long as there's nothing wrong going on they married you for some reason, right?

People should be able to converse with each other and have friends within a relationship, it only makes sense.

Answer 7

That's how networking happens. My wife has developed relationships with people she has worked with and they open up opportunities for her. Of course they are all female friends she's kept in contact with. The male work buddies seem to fade away much faster.

Answer 8

I don't see why not.....I talk to people from work outside of work, my fiance doesn't have a problem with it. You spend a lot of time with the people at work, you become friends with some of them. Don't worry about it.

Answer 9

To an extent it is ok. I wouldnt mind if my husband talked to co-workers with email and such. If he got all secretive and such i would be worried otherwise.

Answer 10

I tell you what. I do it everyday with an old classmate and with an ex co-worker. My wife doesn't know and I know she wouldn't like it,nor would I. It's not ok. I do it and IT'S not ok.