My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and have a 6 month old beautifull baby-boy. I just meat this other gay that I'm really really digging. I have no feeling for him, I just want to have sex with him once. What should I do?
2006-12-01 08:08:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask these things you already know the answer.
2006-12-01 08:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sam M 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with this other guy then why are you still with your bf of 5 years cuz it seems you are either missing something important or not in love with him anymore.
Cheating and secrets are not a good idea. And if you love your bf and end up losing him over one mistake....you'll regret it the rest of your life and your child will also suffers the consequinces.
2006-12-01 16:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question your in trouble. Is sleeping with this guy worth tossing away the past five years of your life? If you love the man your with you'll stay faithful. If you don't think you can stay faithful you need to break up with your boy friend now, because the longer you are together the worse it will hurt him when you screw around.
2006-12-01 16:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Castle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should cut off all contact w/ this other guy and forget he exists. If you continue talking to him you just might get your wish - but that will definitely come w/ consequences.
Your boyfriend could find out and never trust you again, the guy could become obsessed w/ you and try to intrude on your "family", or worst - you will never be able to get over the guilt of cheating on your boyfriend.
2006-12-01 16:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but when you became a parent you joined a club of people that for the rest of their lives will sacrifice what they want for the betterment of their child. Your care free days are now gone. Every action you take now will effect you child so you need to think about that child first. Believe it or not its still worth it.
2006-12-01 16:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your-self do u love your boyfriend.have he done any thing to heart you.douse he love you.And are you happy and do you see a future with hem and your child.If the no out number the yes break up with that man and sleep with the other man.Mack sure you close one part of your life before moving on.Hit me back an tell me how it works out.I wish you the best of luck follow your heart not your brain
2006-12-01 16:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
UM 1 he is gay i dont know if he will and 2 that is just wrong. God wouldnt approve of it.
2006-12-02 17:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Derinda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't have sex with this man!!!!! Don't hurt your boyfriend or your family over a man you have no feelings for.
2006-12-01 16:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by AmyB 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your boyfriend if it's ok...seriously...get a clue...read Dr. Phils advice below.
2006-12-01 16:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from him, don't look at him, and don't talk to him, out of sight out of mind
2006-12-01 17:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by crazylarry88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋