we both have families, and I dare not have something better than she does, she is so envyous of me and my kids, I can even see it in her kids now, they are becoming the same way with my kids, I tried talking with her in a diplomatic way but she is so always right I cannot get through to her, she never has time to talk because she is always busy doing nothing, obviously she avoids me sometimes, she is totally moody most of the times, and she likes to pretend living the high life which I know she is always pretending, is she a bad influence? should I end this friendship? I am always there for her but she is never there for me, I feel sorry for her most of the times because she has no friends, she had to spend a whole week at my house because she had no heat for a while, and the weather is starting to get really cold now, I could not of said no, she has kids, I am really frustrated, she even says things to her kids, and they tell me what she said and beg me not to rat on them, help ?
2006-12-01 07:56:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think your friend needs a reality kick in her butt, you are a very dedicated friend and should be loved for it not taken advantage to, she is clearly using you , so nip it in the bud, I know that there are kids involved but you cannot worry about other people and there problems to much, cause you have your own life to think about you have done enough its time to live and let live, just tell her sorry but goodbye
2006-12-02 13:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by tambranmasala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sense you you already tried talking to her, I would just be a friend for now and help when she needs help because children are involved. It's always better to give then to receive. So in the long run you may actually get blessings because you helped her and her family that's in need. I hope it works out for you.
2006-12-01 08:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still continue on in a relationship with this person? There must be something you are getting out of all of this drama. I would just end the relationship, this is not a healthy friendship at all. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-01 08:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has low self esteem and needs to feel like she is better than you to validate herself. But I would drop her as a friend because she sounds annoying. Maybe she'll figure it out when she doesn't have any friends left.
2006-12-01 08:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgrlgiordano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is doing this because she thinks your so perfect that she wish she was the same as you. youb should be glad someone looks up to you . it kind of makes her think that your just like a celebrity like her. if you do choose to be friends with her than tell her about the problem your having about each other.
2006-12-01 08:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not friendship, this is someone who is using you. If she needs heat, refer her to Social Services. Friendship is a two way street and she has to support you as much as you support her.
2006-12-01 08:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems clear why she doesn't have any freinds! She doesn't sounds like a good friend, and she she doesn't act like one anyway! Don't give yourself a headache, I would just drop my relashionship with her, save myself from getting into troubles with her! She sounds like bad news to me! =\
2006-12-01 08:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy♥of2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋