my gf was kick out of her house cuz her parent found out she is 5 months pregnant, i have a small studio which only fits my twin size bed and a sofa. i barely have space to move i m always stepping on my dogs. so he has no place to stay and she s sleeping in the car
i was thinking about letting her sleep in my studio temporary but i dont want to inconvience my dogs since they sleep in the sofa
what should i do??
thanks
2006-12-01 07:49:25 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
wow, i really dont think u are even ready to be a father...SERIOUSLY SHE'S UR GIRLFRIEND AND SHE'S CARRYING UR BABY!!!...INCONVENIENCE UR DOGS?? what kinda bs is that.....damn a dog, the woman is pregnant with ur baby, take some responsibility..i mean, c'mon, u were 'thinking' about letting her live there....that should be no question...u really need to get ur priorities in line.
2006-12-01 07:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious, inconvenience your dogs. YOUR GIRLFRIENDS PREGNANT, do you not have any empathy, sympathy, apathy, ANYTHING. Give up your damn bed, grow some balls, become a man and sleep on the floor if you have too. I sure hope you weren't the one that got her pregnant. I wouldn't care if you only had a closet to sleep in. You make due. And if this is your baby your definitely not helping her maintain a healthy pregnancy. Come on for goodness sake, why are you even thinking about it. Even if she wasn't your girlfriend it's called having a heart. Use the life god gave you for a purpose, help that baby grow, and develop normally to have a chance at living. Your only putting her through more stress, which isn't healthy for her or THE BABY! How do you think she feels knowing you don't want to inconvenience your DOGS! I hope your not seriously debating over this. IT"S A NO BRAIN-ER A-- HOLE!
2006-12-01 08:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be selfish of you to leave her outside sleeping in a car, I mean witch one do you care about the most? Your dog ( an animal) or your gf who is caring your unborn child. I'm eight months pregnant and being pregnant isn't easy.You should let her sleep in your bed and you sleep on the couch. Not to sound mean but pregnant women have to sleep a certain way or there labor will be harder. Make due with what you have.
2006-12-01 07:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by missy87 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Now is gf stand for girl friend or good friend?
if it is your good friend - then u would be a great friend to help her out, because a pregnan woman needs as much comfortable rest during a pregnacy as possible and I think ur dogs would like having someone their, maybe a little more tight but everyone would cope.
if it is ur girl friend and she is pregnant with ur baby, well buddy it is ur obligation to make her as comfortable as possible in ur apt. even if it means giving ur dogs to family or friends who may have more room for them for a while at least until u and your gf can get a bigger place for all of u and the new bundle of joy.
I hope this helps, and I am sure u'll do the right thing either situation!
2006-12-01 07:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by I Love Pink! 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMFG! Are you seriously saying you care more about your dogs than the woman carrying your child!!!! You heartless son of a *****! If you don't let her live there you are the sorry-est sack of dog **** I will have ever spoke to! She was good enough to **** but shes not good enough to take care of. You know what she might be better off int he car than living with a piece of low life crap like you! You know what tell her to get a hold of me somehow at a library or something I'll see what I can come up with to get her some help. She can message me on yahoo im_32_flavors_and_then_some.
2006-12-01 08:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your gf to go get help at a women's shelter because you're being abusive. Nobody's studio is that small and she needs her rest, why don't you sleep in the car 'cause you're not pregnant. I have a feeling you made this all up though just for a reaction.
2006-12-01 07:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by SHELTIELUVER 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok JERK! you don't want to inconvenience the dogs so you are letting your PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND sleep in a car???? Wow, there is a special place for people like you. If you are so worried about the dogs, you go sleep in the car! She needs to be comfortable and not basically sleeping outside in December!!!
2006-12-01 07:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shayna B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hold on, your GIRLFRIEND is 5 months pregnant and you are worried about inconveniencing your DOGS?! First, Grow up. Second, go hug her and thank her for putting up with your stupid a$s. Now, go grow a pair and step up to your responsibility... MAKE room for her stuff in your studio and let her sleep in your bed... you can either sleep on the couch or sleep on the floor... either way i feel sorry for your girlfriend for putting up with your sh*t.
2006-12-01 16:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tiggy's Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you rather your pregnant gf to sleep inside a car instead of with you. After all you are partly responsible for her getting kicked out. you care about your dogs more than her. WOW I'm glad all men aren't like you.
2006-12-01 08:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Share the bed OR the dogs sleep on the couch with you and she sleep on the bed. Or the dogs sleep on the bed with her. The car isn't safe.
2006-12-01 08:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by riverxwater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man, don't sleep with your dogs! OMG!Somebody ought to warn your dogs that they could end up pregnant and sleeping outside in a car in the middle of the winter.
2006-12-01 08:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋